Hi,

it's almost two months into my relationship with this incredibly nice and funny girl who happens to be a virgin and I feel stuck not knowing what to do next.

Let me quickly recap how it started: We were seeing each other everyday this whole semester at school, went on several very pleasant dates and generally most of my good memories from this semester are with her. Right from the start I was suspicious that she could lack any experience with guys. She never brought up anything concerning previous relationships, she is incredibly nice, easygoing and maybe a bit distant and cautious... oh and she never flirts. After spending a lots of time around girls who were basically ruined by riding the cock-carousel she was the most pleasant change I could think of.

We had planed movie date a week before out finals started. I had to make my move that night otherwise I just knew that we would not see each other until next year (she's from neighboring country - not too far but not close). Well... I did and she basically ran off because the kiss was just too much for her. Next day she texted me, said she had a good time, we wen't for a coffee and she told me that she has never dated anybody.

I wanted to see her the very next week, either just say hi or go on short roadtrip or something. She wasn't very keen on that. She is EXTREMELY diligent when it comes to school (never got anything worse than C, never skipped class, etc) and she has her priorities and I can respect that.
Because I usually rush things too much I said to myself that this time there is no hurry and because school work got a little bit crazy I had no problem not seeing her for a whole month (expect at school, and facebook messaging).

Problem is that now it feels like were are back to square 1... or maybe even -10. After a few minutes of texting with her she gets uncomfortable and usually says that she has something to do. This has been happening right from the beginning. Everytime our conversation escalates just a little bit she pulls back.
I know that our problem is a lack of comfort but I'm not sure how to build it when she's not on the same boat.

How can I build comfort with her and show her that we can have a good time together and make her want to be together when she gets extremely uncomfortable everytime I try to do so?

School ends at the end of this month and if things remain the way they are now it would be the end, it seems.

And one more question - what role does having sex with her play in all of this? I feel like it's the one think I shouldn't be pushing too much but then again I tend to be completely wrong in this department.

If she's from another country kind of far away, I would suggest not pursuing this girl any further. Just let it go. Don't try to talk her into anything. Sounds like puppy love to me.

Just let it go and find a local girl.

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I think I've lost her today. We had this huge six hour long exam together and during our break we went outside to sit on a bench. She was kinda distant as always (no sexual vibes but I understand that) but friendly enough. Because she mentioned at least two times that she can't wait to be back home I tried to escalate the whole thing.

While she was studying I asked her if she needs both hands for it, she looked at me kinda puzzled so I took her hand and she withdrew. She immediately apologized and I told her that I don't know what to think about her behavior. She told me that she needs to really get to know me and basically that she would prefer to put this whole thing on the hold and continue after summer break (I think it's called spring break in America).

We'll be in the same town for at least next two weeks so I want to make the best out of it.
As of now I see two options:
1) contact her, go somewhere and tell her that I understand, that I don't want to put pressure on her and live with the fact that it may or may not resume in September while going on with my life.
2) not contact her and and live with the fact that it may or may not resume in September while going on with my life.
Edit: 3) wait till 25th when I definitely see her again and do something about it then.

I know her well enough to know that she won't make the first move so if nobody has any suggestions I'll go with option 1 just because I know that she would like things to be different but can't help it. And really the outcome won't be much different either way.
Sucks though.

Even though it's another country it's not really far away. I believe that lots of Americans have longer commute to work.