Me and this HB9 both train at the same gym together. We've barely even talked but she's really thrown herself at me. It's quite flattering.

I'm not even a coach, yet she asked to do private lessons with me, so I said yes. Before we even got to that, she added me on FB (at her own initiative) and sent me a message saying I'm absolutely sexy. I said I thought she was sexy too. I liked one of her pics, and she ended up changing that pic to her profile pic! :-O

But so far, we've done 2 private lessons and I've been professional about it. I'm wondering how to transition to doing more with her than just private lessons without being awkward. Is it as simple as asking if she sees me as more than a friend/trainer, then suggesting we hang out?

The other problem is I have no patience and I get frustrated/stressed very easily. I can't be friends with girls I find attractive because I just think about sex and am stressed if I can't get it from them. So I need to either get sexual with this girl or cut ties with her before it goes on much longer.

don't ask stupid questions.. you know she wants you..

You're getting IOI's so time to give some back

I have been.

kinda seems like it's already sexual man,

why don't you just ask her out to do something and have sex with her?

and why does this seem professional to you?

girl is like, ''hey I want an excuse to hang out with you''

so you agree,

she then adds you on facebook, ''you're fuckin hott''

you like a picture, ''this is now my main picture''

then come on forum, ''hey guys what do I do here?''

you probably already know what to do here man, just have fun and wrap up

Ya'll are prob right, I prob just need to give MORE IOIs. I'll try that now and see where it leads.

i think youre making excuses and talking yourself out of sexing her when you bring up professionalism

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Err... Why is this a thread? You want runway lights or something? Gees...

Well she is paying for private lessons, so that's a coach/student / teacher/student relationship.

Anyway, I sent her more IOIs yesterday, both through text and on FB, and I got no response to any of it.



I can tell ya'll are surprised by this thread, but I guess I just don't know how to transition from the lessons to a situation that's more sexual. Do I just say, "Hey, want to come watch a movie at my place?"

My preference would actually be to get an intimate conversation going, which is what I was hoping for by sending her more IOIs yesterday. Because I'd prefer to ask her what her sex drive is like before spending anymore time with her. I've only had 2 relationships and they both had low sex drives which I can't cope with. I'd rather have no sex at all than have to be declined and left nervously disturbed and frustrated all the time. I'm inclined to think this HB9 is not at my level in sex drive so I have a lot of anxiety and ambivalence about pursuing. But considering that she didn't respond to my IOIs yesterday, perhaps it's over already. :-/

If I were you, next time u have a training session, be sure to get a lot of kino going (maybe even a massage), and when its over ask her- not on facebook, but to her face, if she wants to hang out tonight. Remember, don't focus on making advances through facebook, do it in person, confidently.

You should know, man, women like this get hit on by muscle heads ALL the time. You should have just remained *professional* as you were doing, as this piqued her curiosity to see if she could get you sexually interested in her. Once she got you in the zone she was doing all she could to see when you'd crack. Had you have continued being a mystery and a seduction challenge, you'd have eventually got into her.

Hey, just make her kino to you and say her in the gym when you are training together, "hey hot babe, you know, this is a professional relationship, I won't have sex with you". Bu your attitude when you are saying that should really be slow like eating a dinner in your home, with low light. Being slower and sexy is important.

Also you should talk dirty with her. Do same things like that. Kino is important, dirty talking is important, slow talking is important!

After all she will definitely desire you. And also don't chase her. Let her chases you. Act like you are fucking many HB9 like her, and act like you don't need her, everyday you have a date, and if she wants to date with you, you don't have time (because of these HB9 babes always chasing you), but if she invests in you, you can give her a chance to date with you.

No offense man, but I don't think it's a good idea to say this at all - it's too explicit and a bit gimmicky. At best, it should only be used after much rapport has been built, and by that time you probably wont need something like this. I like your other bits of advice though - regarding making yourself be the prize instead of her.

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Preston's Game Log - Please critique

1)Dont show any IOI over FB or phone.
2)When you see her, throw lots of kino, give massage as suggested and be sexual in every possible way. She will accept it as she sends you major IOI's.
3)Rinse and repeat.

If you are able to do this smoothly, she will be so easy for you and you cannot fail. Everything will work out and you can just move on to the next phase(dates, sex etc). There is no point of failure.

Yeah..... I would be making sure that when you are lessening her you make sure that you are doing stuff that will get you in close and personal....

Like Sit-ups the proper way.... you get to put your hands on the back of her head, and stomach to feel what muscles are working (ha ha) . Make sure to give a little tug on the hair when your back there.

This.

WTF? I would have crushed this before I could even finish typing the original post.

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