long story short.. I met a girl,HB8, we talked on the phone for a week. Went out on Sat and had a great time. Kissed last hour at bar, nothing more...kiss close the night. on Sun she texts me to tell me she had a great time. i text back and say "me too, lets do it again". She texts back "definitely". I call her Monday and we talk for 30 min, I ask her if she wants to hang again this weekend...she says yes...also ask her if she would want to come over and see superbad (she hasn't seen it yet)She says she can't. I try to call her wed and get no answer, and leave a message. I get no callback. this? How should I proceed!?

Here are my thoughts on the gameplan: wait to see if she calls, if there is no call by saturday, I'll text her this: Hey! PLaying hard to get? Nice! Talk to me...

You may have lowered your value by showing her that you want to meet her. She shouldn't be the one playing hard to get, you should be the one hard to get. This DHV (demonstration of higher value) makes her want to chase after you. Reading your story it seems that she controls the meta-frame (the one controlling the outcome of the relationship).

What I would first of all do is stop calling her. This shows neediness what is a DLV (demonstration of lower value). The text you are wanting to send may turn out okay, but I personally wouldn't use it. Personally I would wait two days if she calls - if so no problem - but if she still doesn't, I would try some C&F (cocky and funny) remarks like "Hey! this is not a good way to impress me - I know you want me - call me or miss the opportunity of a lifetime for more quality time with ME ." or try something that shows her in not a too apparent way that you have options beside of her and that you don't really need her.

and also, go sarging asap