Hi friends,

I met a girl a month ago, we hung out and recently we started having sex. We slept together already 3-4 times, and until now she hasn't got an orgasm yet, I asked her what is going on and she doesn't want to say. I asked her if she is masturbating and said seldom & she hasn't done anal yet either.
Does anyone have any idea what is going on? I'd like to help her but she doesn't tell me..

cheers

The things I do to help around here!

Fine I'll help you out, give me her number!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I'd prefer some advise from someone who had similar experience, or know what is going on

Hahahaha had to do it Bro.

I think your probably just over-thinking, it will undoubtedly lead to increased stress, compounding the trouble.

Relax, don't ask.

In between I recommend you "google" David Shade.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

It's not her, it's you. You're not doing it right.

Watch videos and read instructional videos on how to make a woman cum.

My guess is you are inexperienced and you are simply sticking your dick in like they do in porn films. Women in porn are paid to fake orgasms. Real sex is nothing like porn, unless you only care about your own orgasm.

This is something you need to learn yourself and figure out what you're doing wrong.

sure about that?
I've had girlfriends before and they came, I'm thinking she is a special case, which I need to do smt special.
Anyway, she doesn't complain, she even said that she is having fun with me.

Some girls take longer to warm up. If you can't make a girl cum with just your fingers, there's something wrong with yohr technique.

Check out David Shade. I've yet to have an issue orgasm, even on my first time, I got a woman to have her first squirting orgasm, just by using his techniques.

Most women I've been with get off by oral or hand-stimulation. Most women that I've been with do not get off during regular intercourse. It's something I've come to accept as suboptimal (But I"m still making her cum/squirt with the other techniques).

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Preston's Game Log - Please critique

Learn how to lick her clit and use your fingers. Ask her to guide you at first. Don't just stick it in.

My advice, don't give a fuck about the woman. Just take care of you. You're a man, fuck like one. Ravage her pussy like the caveman you are and you'll be happy!

But, if this is your one-itis, then obviously you'll want her to come. I hear women come easier through oral sex. Receiving and giving. I've also heard that fingering them works well. I've found that pulling her hair, grabbing and sucking her titties while you fuck the shit out of her gets an orgasm. Most of the times I give girls orgasms is actually through intercourse. I guess I'm an exception to the rule. That, or the women I've laid are. Hahaha

Tease the fuck out of her. It's that simple. The more you tease, the more aroused she gets.

I've said it before and I'll say it again... People appreciate things more that they have to work hard for. If you spend a good amount of time teasing her (to the point where she is literally BEGGING for it) vs. just going for it because you want to get your dick wet and get off, she is going to get that much more pleasure when you actually do stick your dick in her.

Focus more on pleasing her and she will make sure you are taken care of. The same way you "calibrate her reactions" when escalating kino... do the same thing for sex. Be patient. As others have stated, lick her clit and get her going before you have sex. If you don't know how to do that, just spell out the alphabet with your tongue on her clit LOL it sounds stupid but it actually works. This way, you will lick her in using different motions so you can find out what she likes.

If you can't figure it out, send her my way and I'll take care of her

Ever try the CAT technique? Another one I like is the girls legs over your shoulders- both of these really get em going.