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Hi everyone. This shall be my first post on this forum, although I've been lurking here for almost a year already lol. I though I'd start posting something when I actually make progress. I think I'll make a proper introduction soon.
I'm 18 and I was spending some of my summer vacation at my mom's "farm" (my parents are divorced) with my two sister, one being 16 and the other 7. My older little sister told me her Internet friend was coming there for a sleepover. Turned out she was a 17-year-old HB7. Let's call her "Jane". She was a little brash, very sarcastic and, in a very positive way, a total nutcase lol. Luckily, I happen to be all those things as well, especially sarcastic. We shook hand and then the three of us sat on the couch, my sister being in the middle. I didn't mind my sister sitting in the middle though, 'cuz I and Jane kept talking over my sister's shoulder. I mimicked the way she kept her arm on the back rest and it seemed to work. Throughout the day we both kept telling each other the weirdest jokes and flirting in very strange ways. For example, she "deeply apologized" for something that I can't remember and said she has to repay me later, to which I asked in a flirtatious voice: "In what ways?" She also kept telling me how we get along so well. Once during the day I accidentally entered our room while she was changing clothes and she just happened to be topless. Too bad she managed to get a shirt in front of her in time lol. During the day she also kept giving me IOIs, although it annoyed me that my baby sister kept bugging us all the time and saying we two should kiss. Jane reacted pretty loudly to this, although I could see she wasn't actually objecting. At midnight before we went to sleep we three watched a horror movie (Silent Hill if anyone's interested lol) while she sat right next to me, her leg brushing mine. Once she even rested her head on my shoulder for comfort.
On the second day she was more direct with me. She just couldn't get her fingers off me; all the time she tried to find ways to touch me, to which I didn't especially pay any mind. When we two were taking my baby sister to a pond for a swim, she asked if I have a girlfriend, which was a pretty obvious IOI. I told her I have a female friend who spends a lot of time with me although we don't date and I told her about a girl who is my "boyfriend", whose "girlfriend" I am lol. At the pond she had no problem being merely with a bikini on with me. I kept my clothes on though as the water was still a bit cold for me lol. For some reason this day she tried to play hard to get, to which I didn't pay any mind and I just used a lot of sarcasm with her, which again seemed to work well. At midnight while I, Jane and my older little sister were drawing, we two kept flirting with a pun about the eraser (in our language, Finnish, the word for "eraser" happens to also be the word for "rubber" lol), to which she said she might have some "erasers" if I'm interested. Then she asked if in need of pussy 'cuz I "seem to be so".
The third day was the last day she spent at my mom's. We snuck to our "saloon" built in the cowshed's loft. We sat on a couch right next to each other, listened to some music from our phones and flirted a little. Too bad my two sisters found us and came there. My baby sister kept climbing on our laps and tried to bug as at all costs while my older little sister sat on a couch opposite of ours. We managed to make my baby sister sulk and leave the saloon but my other sister was still there so I didn't make a move on Jane. However, for some reason we turned our backs against each other and leant at each other. At some point she turned at little so my head was on her shoulder. I said she has an interesting shoulder to which she replied by laughing and telling no one's ever said anything like that about her. Then she turned a little more and then my head was resting on her boobs, to which I didn't give much of a respond. She then started petting my hair! So there I was, with the back of my head on her boobs, having my hair stroked and my chest massaged. She told me I was a good guy for petting to which I said she can pet me anytime. When my baby sister came she was very surprised to see us the way we were so naturally she had to jump on me. Later, a little before she was to be taken back home in an another town, I asked if she touches all her male friends the way she does to me (while I demonstrated by grabbing her shoulder and touching her arm). She said no and told she does that "only for the rare and the chosen" to which I asked if I'm already one of the rare and the chosen after two days of meeting her. She said we've just synced so well and that I can interpret her touching any way I want to. In the car she gave me her number without me having to ask, so I just called her so she got my number. Later that day she gave me her SPAM on Facebook and we chatted quite long. Flirting is very different on SPAM than IRL, heh.
The next day we chatted on SPAM for quite a lot but things got quite interesting in the evening. Sometime circa midnight it kinda slipped out from her that she has a crush on me. She actually removed the message very soon but I was fast enough to see it. It teased her saying it was too late and a saw the message and she, as far as I can tell from her messages, she got kinda nervous lol. I simply said I'll keep it in mind without giving her an answer. She then said I have a cute smile. I left to bed rather soon then. This happened yesterday btw.
And what did we learn from this? When two very sarcastic people meet, the Game isn't all that necessary. I did use quite a lot of hints from this forum (thanks a lot guys!) but I didn't need any openers on this one and stuff like that. We'll probably see each other next week as I'm coming to stay at Granny's for a while. And then I won't be settling for just hair petting!
I've got a problem right now though. She indeed said she likes and I didn't answer if I feel the same. The problem is that I'm merely very attracted to her but I don't have a crush on her or anything. I'm also not looking for a relationship right now, so just having some hanky-panky with her occasionally suits me. How should I frame our relationship as less serious? Any tips are welcome, thanks in advance!
The two of you have CHEMISTRY. Just don't creep her out, get her over to your place again, escalate physically until you get to sex. Nice job man. I've always said that my best pick-ups, I never can remember what exactly I said. You did a good job. Now close the deal.
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