So there is this pretty girl at school. I would say she is a solid HB8.
I had an eye on her for quite some time now but i never thought about approaching her because i was (and actually still am) working on this other girl (see my other posts for that story).

Anyways i think she is really hot so im thinking about approaching her next time i see her. Today i realized that we actually had some eye contact about 2 or 3 times. So i guess thats a good thing. The thing is: I only see her 2 days a week and she is always with some friends. She always has her (girl) friend with her or some stupid guys.
And she is only 17 or 18...Dont know if thats gonna be a problem.
So what would you recommend? I dont want to come of as needy or creepy, especially not in school!

Girls her age tend to like older, bad boy types.

Find out what her interests are by what she reads or draws. Then you can start a conversation with her about her interests. It's even better if are interested in what she likes to.

Find that "common interest" and use it to gain entrance into her life. Don't be another friend to her, you want find out what type of guys she likes in subtle way, so you can build that image in her mind, that is you.

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You really need a hook into her inner circle to avoid approaching directly. Work on the friends, not the girl. You need to be accepted by the group before you can approach easily, indeed I often freeze a girl out and wait for her to effectively hit on me (this happens very naturally if she feels excluded).

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So after my actual "dreamgirl" said she only wants to be friends and i actually messed it up...Im back to this topic here The hot girl in school.

So my plan for next week is this:
Since i find it to creepy to just walk up to her and ask for her name and talk to her i came up with this idea which should make it way easier for me personally to approach her:

Im planing to approach her together with a friend of mine. I will tell her (and her friend who is always with her) that im doing a presentation for school and that our task is to ask students about this and that topic. I will then ask her some question about whatever topic and then ask for her name... i just go from there.
My friend will "take care" for her (girl) friend btw. so i got her "isolated" a bit.

Whats your opinion about that? I actually think this is quite a nice and low key "opener" to use in school.

Ok so here is the deal and this is just my opinion. A wingman opener in this situation is not a good idea. If you go with your friend it may look like you are too scared to talk to her yourself. Also, never go in at the same time with your wingman. The problem is that you go in and make the impressions and your wing DLVs which in turn lowers your value. I'm not so sure you want to make an excuse to talk to her because if it is at all apparent, you will look like a complete chode. This girl is an 8 and is always surrounded by girls and guys as friends and as protection. If you go and open the girl, her friends will blow you out. Her guy friends will get defensive. Also this girl is used to getting all the attention. So here is what you do, (seems like a good time for some Mystery-Based Method):

You go into the group, (create a time constraint by saying you have to get back to some friends in a second or do it at the end of lunch so there is an apparent time constraint.) Enter in the set with your body sideways and head turned to them is if they don't deserve all your attention. When you do get their attention feel free to face them directly. Don't move too much, body language will be key, do not lean in, speak loudly and confidently. Ignore the target (this will be VERY hard to do.) Impress the friends. Show her friends that you are fucking awesome, can make good jokes and have interesting stories. You want to concentrate on the guys, specifically the AMOG if there is one apparent. This will be the hardest part because you will NEED to be interesting. As this is happening, the target is used to attention and is getting none. Because of this, no bitch shield goes up. She thinks: wow this guy I never really talked to is paying no attention to me... he must have options. (this is mostly subliminal of course.) If she tries to get the attention by getting close and talking, wipe off your shoulder and go eww you spit on me. You must then quickly continue on with the obstacles in your conversation and act like you never even negged her in your own frame of mind. Keep doing these subtle negs never getting too extreme. As this happens, the guys of the group are disarmed in that you appear to have no interest in her by giving these IODs. When you feel you have DHV and are cool with the group, turn to the target acting as if you just noticed her. Say hey why have I never really talked to you before? Before she can logically answer, say hey come with me for a second I have to show you something. (Don't say I WANT to show you something, that looks needy and is a bit of a DLV.)

Here is the hardest part as far as anxiety.... Put your hand on her back and guide her to the next table or whatever. If she appears uncomfortable throw your hand off like she doesn't deserve it and continue walking as if nothing happened. If she seems to like it or IF she puts her hand on your lower back its a big IOI take note. Now her friends will most likely not make a move to stop you because you just DMB'ed. LOL you demonstrated you have massive balls, which is a big deal in high school. Sit her down and sit down 2 feet away from her and lean back slightly, look at her unexpectedly. If she starts to say, "sooooo what is it you are going to show me?" take it as an IOI, cut her off mid-sentence like you didn't even hear her start to talk and go: " I want to try something fun." (keyword fun...playfulness is good and will comfort her from the awkwardness. " quickly now! Think of a number between one" (as you say this put your right hand in the air and create a point.) "and 10," (put your left hand up creating a point that represents the other side of the imaginary line graph) as you bring your right hand slowly down the line graph in front of her face say "aaaaaaaaaand QUICK!" say quick and stop at about where seven would be. " What was the number!? but dont tell me!" (put your finger on her lower lip with a confident, smooth motion and act like its not big deal. "dont tell me just yet Ill get back to you on it!" Do the whole imaginary chart thing subtly and she wont think twice about it. Give her a nice smile and continue on in a more relaxed layed back tone. say "you know, you have a sort of vibe to you.. a sort of... energy, I cant explain it. I think I like it." shell be like really ? and then you back off and say subtly " maybe." then quickly followup with "what makes you special besides your looks?" if she loads you with reasons its an IOI. Reward her by saying" I like that. Beauty is common, whats rare is a good personality." If she fails to give any reasons, say " you really cant think of one reason?" and then look off judgingly somewhere else in the room like you dont have time for her attention..... then turn back look in her eyes and say "7." If she says "how did you know!!!!?" Don't answer, act as if it was nothing. If she says " no haha my number was 3" or whatever just quickly and subtly say " so close" and continue with another subject. Now what comes next is you have a choice. If she gave enough IOI's and especially if she KINO'ed you might want to phase shift to KINO escalation. Put your hand on her leg as you talk or put your hand on her shoulder as you ask what she would be when she gets out of school. When she tells you be like " No way! Thats so perfect I cant even talk to you now!" pull away the kino and legit turn your back to her. She will get your attention back and its then up to you to escalate how you see fit with kino or whatever but dont forget! ALWAYS two steps forward, one step back when it comes to KINO or any escalation really. If its time to leave tell her to give you her number because you are going to some place later in the week and she has to come. Or if you want to really show awesome dominance and DHV and impress her and others, kiss her. Do the triangle eye-mouth contact routine first. YOu might want to do Mystery's 'do you want to kiss me routine' so you can say I wasnt going to, it looked like you had something on your mind if she says no. Also look up 'Mystery's hair pull, human evolution' routine if you need help escalating.


Sorry it was very long but there you go: the best way to pull it off! Im a junior in high school and have tried this. Trust me, even if it doesn't work, you will gain MAD respect. PM me if you have any other questions.

- Recker

@Recker I'd have to completely disagree with you man. I'm in high school, and let me tell you, Mystery Method isn't the place to do it. You are far more likely to creep people out with it, and in high school that can haunt you. REFRAIN from negging teenage chicks, under almost any circumstances- they are incredibly insecure. Better to DHV and confidence, so instead of lowering her value, she tries to raise it to yours. MAYBE throw in a small neg if she really needs lowering. JTQATAR, great advice earlier, listen to it, and try to get social approval from her friends. It's big man. Also, if she's with her friend, I'd use Style's best friends opener.

when you are single, meet as many girls as you can and ''work'' on them, that way if they like you and find out through social means that you are seeing other girls and have options, then they have got to get you quick or some other girl might, and at the same time instead of being needy and being worried about ''how you come off'' you will just not be needy for real instead of desperately doing your best at pretending you don't need it to work out because you desperately need it to work out, if it doesn't work out, who cares you have other girls to see and at the very same time, less likely to be creepy also, cause with more options you will feel less of the need to do weird unnatural things that don't suite you just to get a girl, cause if it doesn't work out, ohh well, you are seeing more girls then that one