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What did you say to them? If you don't mind me asking. I have some openers that usually work but then when I get there attention I crumble. Need help.
Ok, this is a really simple one to use. You honestly don't need openers or canned techniques. I am the direct type. I don't bullshit. The latina girl who is easily a 10 - Just saw her in the mall - walked up to her - and just said
Hi.
Her. Hi (With a funny look as if she was trying to figure out if she knew me/what I wanted)
Me. How are you?
Her. Good (she smiled but kept giving me that funny look.) - And you?
Me. Very nice, thank you. I just kept eye contact for a couple seconds. Then put my hand out.
Her. She took my hand.
Me. I told her 'I think you're just the most beautiful girl I have seen all week and you had this gentle aura about you like you were approachable, and I just had to meet you.' (Which was totally true, she literally was the most beautiful girl I saw all week.)
You could tell she just melted. That 'awwwww, oh my god how sweet' feeling came over her.
I held her hand for about 6 to 8 seconds, not too softly though. Kept perfect eye contact. Asked her for her name. She didn't ask me for my name. So I was like 'So are you new at this (with a little smirk/laugh), you didn't ask me for my name.'
Her. She giggled and was like 'oh what is youuurrr name' with a smile.
Me. Told her my name. Asked her if goes to school around here.
etc etc
So, approach. Say hi. Express your interest in her beauty, style. If she has some sexy ass boots on, say so. If she has amazing breasts, say so. If she has a smile and eyes like that of an angel, say so. Be genuine and just express yourself to her. Then immediately after that 'genuine, honest' connection, you can start the playful 'I'm not that interested, teasing' feel.
Just begin talking. This is where you can make a list of basic questions to ask. 'Do you go to school around here?', 'What do you do?', '
You need to lead the females in conversation sometimes. They get awkward and don't know what to say. Or they are shy. Or they might not show interest immediately until you show that confident persistence.
Like last night, there was beautiful girl sitting on the edge of the booth. I saw her, immediately but playfully nudged her aside and sat next to her and just told her she had the nicest breasts in the entire place. She immediately turned into a sexual being and was just eye fucking me - She told me she deserves a drink for having the nicest breasts. I told her I don't buy drinks for girls unless I get a kiss first to seal the deal. So she made out with me, I bought her the drink and we made out all night periodically. Got her number. I made sure to hit 'call' and ask her for her phone to see if it was dialing. It wasn't. It happened that she accidentally pushed a wrong number in. So she re-typed it in and her phone dialed. I escalated quickly and started biting her lip and she bit me, I started kissing her neck and asking her if she likes to role-play. That I wanted her to be my kitten and I would be her lion. She just loved it. haha - But I couldn't get her to come back to my place so hopefully I'll see her again.
But if you tell a girl she has the nicest breasts in the entire place, you probably need to be somewhat attractive and say it confidently or else it could definitely come across as creepy.