Basically, I'm 18 and still living with my mom. She has invited her polish friend to come live with us because she had nowhere else to go. she is in her early 30's. (I know... but trust me she is HOT for early 30's.) I know she is sexually active as she brings home different men and has lots of lingerie and sex toys in her room. I really wanna bang her. I sort of feel like she is hinting at me that she feels the same way, but it's too subtle to be sure of. Obviously I don't want to get in some serious relationship, i mean.. She's in her 30's. I just want a casual, sexual relationship. In fact, I'll settle for a one-night stand. She has some serious daddy issues which makes me think I actually have a chance being my age. Someone please help me with this as I am fairly new at this type of thing.

Thanks in advance, and any more info needed, please ask.

Ok, What I would do in this situation is be as confident and humorous as possible. Make her laugh and make her feel comfortable. Also flirt a little, Say to her " so those guys you bring home sure are some real winners" or if she is looking nice "i think your hair would look better down/up " just be a little bit of a smart as and see where it goes with that. You should be able to manage bro... Good luck!!

What does she do to make you think she is hinting towards having sex with you?

For starters, when she goes away for a few days/weeks she tells me i can sleep in her room because it's bigger than mine. She then leaves all her lingerie and sex toys in plain sight making no effort to hide them. Also, she occasionally flirts with me (at least I think it's flirting) and I try to flirt back but I'm new to this whole pick-up thing so I'm probably doing it wrong.

I dont want to jump the gun and start giving you bad advice when your moms friend could possibly just be open about her sexuality and thinks nothing about it when she lets you sleep in her room when she is gone. Also Im sure you have thought about the concesquences this could possibly have if things go south with this situation, so trying to talk you out of this is pointless but for moral purposes I will anyways.....DONT DO IT!!! <---- That was it. With that being said give me a scenario where you think she has flirted and what you had said back to her.

I also agree with you about short relationship.You can flirt with him and also tell him that you want to sex with him.Also you discuss about sex toys if you want anytype of sex toys you can contact to condom69.

Banging housemates is hit'n'miss, it either blows up in your face or its the most convinient casual sex you ever get. It usually only goes bad if one gets attached but the other doesn't, and because of the age difference my guess is that it wont happen here. Hard to tell if she's up for it but it sounds like she has a high sex drive so its possible. I've banged a few housemates and once you've banged them once they usually want it all the time, so don't do it if ypu can't see yourself keeping up.

But yea banging housemates is risky but can be FUCKING AWESOME if handled right.

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