I'm texting this HB9, we've already gone on two dates, first one was a typical dinner and just hanging around town, second one she came over my house we watched some netflix then hung out around town (besides some brief hand holding and what not there wasn't much kino I hate to admit). Besides the light kino the dates went great though. Now the problem is I'm not a good texter where as my in person game is IMO pretty damn good ( there wasnt any awkward silences during the dates and I had her laughing alot). So enough background here are the text..

Me: How are the customers today? (We're cashiers at the same place)
Her: We have spurts of craziness with thumb twiddling in the middle.. and its raining cats and dogs out
Me: Doesn't sound fun at all... I hope the cats and dogs are okay
Her: Lol they sounded like sacks of potatoes

What are some ways I can start escalating this conversation and building some more rapport and comfort?

Any criticism and advice is much appreciated.

You have to get sexual and flirty.

What you're doing so far is not even remotely flirty.

Ask her about her clothes, her underwear... Then tell her you don't believe her and make her send you a picture. Ask questions with sexual undertones.

Flirt.

hit her with surprise and powerful texts

like for example, I hit them with things such as

"its over......"

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I don't think texting is your problem at all. If she's come over to your place on a second date, and all you did was watch some tv, then go out into town and do a little bit of hand holding, no amount of sexy texting is going to sort this out for you. If she wasn't comfortable with you and ready to take things further, why would she have been willing to come over to yours? Why didn't she just arrange a meet up in town in the first place? Answer; she was willing to go further and you blew it through lack of escalation.

You don't even need to be texting her a great deal if she's already come on dates with you - once you've got her interest you can keep the texting to a minimum, to the odd sexual chat if you wish, but generally just use it to sort dates out. Then you need to get her over to yours again and this time escalate, get more touchy feely than simply 'a little bit of holding hands', and seal the deal. If you can't escalate in person, then no amount of text game is going to get you laid.

Mate you are fine here is what you do:

During your daily back and forth texting drop this

"I've just got out of the most amazing hot bath ever" (relate with her like "you know one of those baths that totally relaxes you") follow in the same text with "yeah I pulled a muscle in my neck earlier and it's totally helped" (it will also help her visualise you water hot naked without her worrying too much about your neck) now when you see her next have her squeeze your neck between neck and collar bone ask it as a favour to you. "No that's not the spot (neg) look let me show you where it is", do it on her very gently and look her in the eyes as you do it thats kino twice for you there (now when she dose it the second time don't moan or anything like it hurts coz we all know it never did, instead take a long slow breath out your nose and turn in your head so it's rubbing into her arm) "you just got me in my spot" (we all have em) if you feel the energy is there now go for the kiss. Alternatively keep building momentum with her by staying on the subject of how it makes you powerless when "someone" (subtle neg) gets me there.

Good Luck

HAYZE

Good stuff, thanks a million