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like when i go clubbing i am in what i call party mood, so im really pumped up and talkative, and when it comes to opening, i have what you could call a rutine that i use.
in traditional pickup you go and open one set, work it, and go away with the girls number and maybe a kiss close, or an instant date, etc.
i aproach it differently. here in buenos aires where i live, the high and upper middle class society is quite conservative, so its rare for hot girls to hook up with random guys in a club, here in buenos aires is all about social circle game. so i adapted my game.
my rutine for opening is to enter the dancefloor with my friends, like dancing a lot, holding my hands up in the air to some good electronic tomorrowland style music, and rock the shit out of it with my friends. if you do this inteligently you will call everyone's attention but if you over do it it will look like a cry for attention. the important thing is for you to have a good time yourself. fuck everyone else. if you have that mindset, you wont over do it.
its suitable to mention that for the first hour to 2 hours since the party starts, running game is pointless cuz no girl will leave the club with you that soon, and even if you run exelent game its going to be harder for you to get a kiss close cuz the girl might wanna analice other options first before hooking up with you, so my solution is to just have fun with my friends for the first 2 hours.
that being said, i dont just dance arround for 2 hours, i make sure to move arround the club, to get random people to enter our dancing circle and dance with us, be that males of females, it doesnt matter, i get my picture taken with random girls and dudes, (the best clubs in argentina always have a photographer), i open girls as i said in my earlier post, but not to hook up yet, just to leave them with a good feeling.
like for example, last friday i opened a girl that was a solid 10 with a comment: you are fucking tall!
(she was brazilian so i dont know if she understood what i said, but my energy was so positive it didnt even matter, she responded really well, even though the line was plain aweful.)
later i opened another group of girls with an opinion opener(what do you think, should i wear my shirt with long sleves or like this?)
i complemented another girl about the hat she was wearing, etc.
so the point in all this is for the hole club to notice you, in a good way. people will see that you are very sociable, and as you are being very friendly and transmiting a good energy all arround, expecting NOTHING in return (lesson number 9: dont expect any thanks in this life) people will asociate good energy and feelings with you, and being that you are such high energy and in such a good mood people will asume that your life is awesome. also, as people see you being friendly with a lot of people they will asume you know everybody, and will want to meet you, or at least wont mind meeting you.
another clear example is that night there was an asian guy that apeared to be alone, and i was with a friend of mine rocking the club. he saw that and came closer to us. i noticed and brought him in the circle.
or i was trying to get the photographer to take a picture of me and a friend, and he was talking to some dude, so when they finished that dude was still standing there, and i was like come, take a picture with us!. i didnt knew him, but who cares?
the best thing about this is your mood will keep getting better and better as people respond well.
i have an older post talking about how to get in this party mood in the first pleace, if you cant find it , its in my blog.
hope this helps bro,
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