| In the 2nd date all you gotta do is build comfort, because she's already attracted to you, you can tell she's just because she went to the date itself. She wouldn't go with a guy she doesn't likes. So after attraction, comes comfort, she won't want to build comfort with you if she's isn't attracted, so you gotta build comfort after attraction, thus before seduction, and how you build it? Well, finding commonalities, going to some vulnerability conversations, building trust, doing Kino Escalation, playing some Routines such as The Cube, The Strawberry Fields, Thumb-War, etc. So she will feel like if you know her better, also you gotta try to bounce to different venues so her brain will save the "Moments spended" but not the time itself, because even though the brain it's a complex and almost perfect-working machine, it doesn't understands the concept of the time very well, it saves the information like in a mini-photo album. Bounce with her, so when she reminds of you she'll have all this images in different places, which will create the effect on her brain like if you know more time ago, it's like tricking the brain. Ultimately, you gotta go for the kiss at some point of comfort building, because if not, you're gonna become her girlfriend, make her know that you're sexually active for her, and after comfort, can finally go to seduction.
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