What do you think is worse to do to your girlfriend?

Is it worse to be a faithful asshole and just not show her the kind of love she wants because you are angry at the world and yourself for your social conditioning?

OR

Is it worse to be very loving, love her, show her a good time but cheat on her and flirt with other girls?

Which do you think a girlfriend/woman would desire more?

No one likes an asshole, insecure guy, even if he is faithful 100%, that's for sure.

But would girls prefer someone who is an Alpha, loves them, but may cheat instead? Maybe girls like that kind of drama since that is the kind of stuff they watch when they watch their shows. Maybe they secretly hope it will happen to them?

Your thoughts, opinions, and most importantly, personal experiences much appreciated!

Have you thought of the possibility to do none of the two? Just asking. I'm trying to be really good and fulfilling to them once they fall, if they don't appreciate I shoot them down and move to the next.

Just curious on how the female mind works, more so than looking for something to do.

It's a bad question. It assumes that all girls are looking for the same thing. Hell, my girlfriend WANTS an open relationship (and, later, an open marriage) so the question doesn't even work for me. I couldn't cheat on her if I tried.

-Wolf

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Heres my take on it.... Being an "asshole" once you have established yourself as a couple will just result in bullshit drama. And nobody likes someone who is insecure....

With my girlfriend now, I feel as if she has earned to see my sweet side. She has earned my affection and my caring nature. I didn't give her all of that before when we were just fucking... But she definitely earned them. She always has fun and is happy when I'm around. I don't mind doing nice things for her.

But here's the thing... She knows I flirt with other girls. However, I feel as if I would be stupid to cheat on her. Hell, she cooks for me, she does my laundry for me, she gives me back massages when I get stressed, she supports me when I'm broke, and ontop of that... She's beautiful. She looks like Zooey Deschanel. For me to cheat on someone like that.... The girl better be one hell of a woman.

See, I have developed the type of personality and mindset that I am always seeking the best of everything. I want the best cars, the best houses, the best boats, the best clothes, the best food and along with all of that, comes the best women. So, she has two options, either get left behind or keep up with me and keep developing into a better and better woman. I have no problem leaving her. But I wouldn't leave her unless I found something better... I wouldn't cheat on her for a night with some strange pussy, because I've already got pussy at home who's going to get me a glass of water and a protein shake when I'm done tearing it apart.

Basically, let her FEEL like you would drop her in a heart beat if something better came along... Make her become a better and better woman or leave her ass behind. It definitely keeps her hooked. My girlfriend has told me I'm her hero, she thinks I'm superman, all that shit

Very good way of thinking about it. I like it.