thanks.

Rely on your gut, it's likely correct! 99.9% of the time. the other .01% she wanted to but didn't.

I'm sure this dude cleaned her carburetor, and did some poking around her exhaust pipes.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

What do you think I should do?

At bare minimum FREEZE OUT.

Or dump and dash!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She's being quite disrespectful. Doesn't even bother to give you a head's up about her hanging out with him, instead you find out through video chat...looks sketchy, even if nothing happened. It's one thing for a girl to have male friends, another entirely for her to be hanging out with a guy she had a fwb relationship with and you find out the way you did.

Lame.

Should I break up with her or call her out about it and tell her that she was being disrespectful?

What do you think about the other sh1t, does it sound like she is sleeping with him?

When they are being shady like that, they:

A. Are fucking.
B. Want to be fucking.

I'll bet $10 her 2am breath smelled a lot like his cock!

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Start learning how to listen to your gut

Dead on
A & B are Dead on and i wouldnt bet $10 against it.

I can't believe you just let this girl walk all over you like this... Her behavior is completely unacceptable. Draw the boundaries that a man should and prepare for a breakup.

What I do when I'm with somebody I think to myself "If I feel i have to hide this, then its generally not right"

My current gf has in fact hungout with male friends (none of whom she's had relationships with) and she always gives me a headsup about who they are etc (and if they have alterior motives, I trust she will conduct herself appropriately). In addition, I have a few very close female friends, one of whom is an ex gf of 7 years and I've gone out of my way to explain to my new gf who she is, and the relationship dynamic. Why? Because I want to be afforded the same respect by anyone else, and so she knows there's nothing weird going on (obv the onus is on me to demonstrate to a new gf that the relationship I have with my ex simply is that of a close friend and nothing more).

For me your girlfriend's behavior was disrespectful, and I'd find it hard to believe she didn't know what she was doing (would she be cool with some random chick showing up at your place via video cam?). Obv its up to you if you want to work on things with her or call it quits seeing as there's likely little trust to begin with.

No offense dude but how much more obvious could she be. She's making you look like a fool. I'd have one last talk with her. To explain why she was getting dumped on her head. I wouldn't even allow her to speak in this interaction. I'd make it clear what she did wrong just in case she's so stupid she thinks it's ok. Then she'd never hear a word from me again. That bitch is history. Why stay there?? Look like more of a fool? Waste more of your life? Time is finite. You only get so much. Sounds like you treat her too damn good for this shit. She's not worth your time. Actually that's the only thing I'd say to her before I fell off the planet. "Your not worth my time!" This Ratchet ass knows exactly what she's doing. You've just tolerated it.

PS: carb and exhaust guy. I just about rolled out of the truck when I read that. LMFAO!
You just made my day.

And another. Saw another poster say set boundaries. Yep. In the next relationship..... This women will never have respect for you. Ever! Bitch stomped a mud hole in your ass and walked it dry.

RUN! RUN! RUN! Never let someone treat you that way again.

So the consensus is that I should dump her?

Should I even bother getting any sort of explanation for her behavior?

Dump her and no it will make you look real needy and you won't like whatever she has to say anyway. If I was you I'd just never contact her again, she'll always wonder why.

I've forced for an explanation before. Dont waste your time. People with that character have a list of excuses a mile long. None of them are worth a shit either. I can explain it. This chick has a horrible character. I read a quote on here the other day. It was brilliant. "When you set a boundary that's against someone's character, you end up with someone doing it behind your back. This chick has no respect. Could be immaturity. Go find somebody with a similar character to you. This girls not it. Be glad you found her out now rather than later. Thats the best you can take from this. Don't give in to her BS. I had oneitis I guess its called. Thought she was the "one". God damn I'd ball bat me for acting like that now. I kept going back and let her fuck me over again and again until I got a clue. I regret wasting so much of my life on her. Now I'm with a chick that's better on every single level. She makes me a better man. Im more successful in business and my professional life without worrying what coals she was going to rake me through Today. Good luck to you. Happy hunting man. Your better than this shit.