So for the record I'll just explain my relation wit this chick

I got a girl who happened to be on my facebook and messaged me saying she wanted to chill.

She sucked my dick the first night i met her and I smashed the next day.

We chilled a couple times since over the weekend goin to parties and shit.

Now the past weekend she brought her friend around for my wingman and we got a hotel. Her friend was being stush so my bro couldnt slam it. I was smashing the fuck out of her in the washroom. I was on MDMA. After we fucked she started explaining that her friend is in the escort business. I even found out that her friend asked my brother how much he would pay if she could get a 3rd party to suck his dick. He refused it.

Now at this point its about 4am and my girl was asking me if i could drive her girl home . I told her I refuse to drive with alcohol in my system. And either way her friend lives too far. 2 minutes later she tells me her girl messaged people through HER phone telling a guy to come pick them up. He's now at the hotel and she's bawling her eyes out and shouting at the chick for pulling such a stupid move (i still wonder if she was acting).

She went down with her friend saw the man and came back crying and said she's going to send her girl with the man and come back. She didn't come back that night. I deleted her off BBM because I told her I didn't want have anything to do with her for having a man in her life with so much control over her.

The next day she called me all day with sad face texts and shit. I didn't answer till night and I explained she fucked up and it's hard for me to trust her. She explained the man forced her into his car and that she slept on a couch at his studio while he went home because she wanted to "stay with me and not him". Apparently he dropped her friend home off too. I went to go see her the other day she sucked me off and told me she loved me. I personally don't get into relationships because I don't see myself as a sucker. She said she wants to be my girlfriend and she wants to belong to me.

With all this being said, I don't mind still smashing. But i hate to be the dude who's close wid a girl who's she's playing him. To me it seems she's playing the card where she wants to have me as her main man with her other guys on the side. How can i figure out her true intentions and should I even care if she's unfaithful?
By the way I think she's unfaithful because she's always chilling with guys with her slut friends. Lol. I'm just playing along with her charade as I do have other partners but I never tell her i Love her or that she's my girlfriend. Assuming she is unfaithful, should I even care ? It's not like she has me on a leash I even told her she can only see me on my weekends because I'm in school and i work. I did that because she seems clingy. ( i like to see her as my party chick . I use my weekdays to smash other chicks

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Serious question.... how old is this girl? Fuckin 19?

Yea. she is.

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Move on already

LOL yeah dude... To hell with her. Move on.

why is her age the deciding factor ? Lol. Bro I just turned 21. The chick loves me off and hits me up everyday. You're suggesting I cut her off? I already deleted her off bbm and her number we just contact through text now. I'm just tryna figure out two things; her intentions, and if she's unfaithful do i play dumb to keep hittin it or stand up n let her know I'm not going to allow it

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Screwing a girl who clearly has no respect for you?

You need to work on yourself son.

Her age has nothing to do with it... Even if she was 28... She still acts like she is 19 and immature. She wants to fuck as many guys as she can. She's immature and probably falls in love twice a day. Girls have the attention span of a 6 year old. They get bored quickly and then its onto the next shiny object. The younger they are, the worse it is. I've fooled around with a few 18, 19, 20 year old girls and they were nothing but a bunch of bullshit baggage and useless emotional stress. Find a different girl to fuck... cause that one isn't worth it.

The only reason I would call her again is if you want to tag team her with one of your buddies or something....

Okay enough said. I'll throw the ball in her park then. How would you rate this approach: Next time I see her I'll make it clear we can be nothing more than fuck buddies for me to smash her when i feel it. She can either appreciate what we have or throw it away ? I think that would eliminate any useless emotional stress/ baggage she may bring along and keep us a bit more transparent to each other ?

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Umm.. I don't necessarily agree with the advice given up to this point. If she's hot and she treats you well, then keep seeing her. However, don't see her exclusively unless she really, really works for it (i.e. treats you like a king without being a source of drama in your life). Personally, I'd stick to having an open relationship where she is your primary girl. Just know when to draw the line if/when she starts acting crazy.

Just my 2 cents.

-Wolf

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What more does she need to do to let him know that she is crazy and emotionally unstable? Waive a gun around?

Oh, she's definitely crazy.. no doubt about it. However, you can still date crazy and have fun if you know what you're doing (i.e. don't expect monogamy, soft next when she gets out of control, etc).

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lol.
A long time ago I dated a girl (not for long, just a month) that approached me after class. At first I was trying to gf her, etc, and she was playing hard to get, and I said something like "well you need to figure out if you want this or not, blah blah blah" (chumpy i know), eventually she agrees, and i start seeing the signs. Honestly... I couldn't even tell you how or why I knew.. but something about crazy girls sets off alarms deep down inside.. Eventually I peaced, and she started chasing me like crazy. One time she shows up to a party i was at and would do shit like steal my hat (i went in costume), and dancing with like... 5 guys at a time next to me... like batshit crazy needy "look at me and want me" behavior. The tries to find any excuse she could to get to my room, and to try to fuck me (i don't stick my dick in crazy). Eventually she went and hit some guy at the party... while dancing with him, and tells me that the guys at my party are pussies....
Later I found out she was living with some chump who paid for her everything the entire time we "dated".
It was a hell of a dodge from that cannon shell..

I guess the moral of the story is listen to your gut, if its telling you there's something "off", even if you can't place your finger on it, its usually right.