So I have been working for this place for a while now. The hottest woman in this building started to show interest. She would open every day by sending messages. I immediately exchanged numbers with her, who immediately began to text me. Things went well and the first time that I initiated the text she acted flaky. I immediately pulled back and she began to intensify interest. Long story short we went out had dinner wine and f-closed. This went on week after week, with her always looking forward to our weekend f... fest. Life was great (enter the bullshit) one day she immediately stated she was not looking for a relationship.. this is after she told me *while in bed* she was falling in love with me. Additionally, that she cannot commit as her ex is moving to town (something she has always wanted) this irritated the fuck out of me and I said cool.. no problem I don't want to be in triangle bullshit.. so she said ok and then we fucked again. The next three weeks it's business as usual, she asks me to come over and meet her sister. All is doing it's natural course. One day she tells me she will be busy because her male COUSIN was coming to town and they would chill with him. this day she once again reminded me that she did not want a relationship and that she didn't want me to be hurt as I am an amazing man. She texted me that night and I didn't respond. Mainly cause I was pissed.. (I know) so the next night I went out with a fuckbuddy.. the next night hb and myself went out and she began drilling me about my date. I answered some questions and then she told me about her chilling with her cousin (certainly her ex) a dinner date became a three day fuck fest where she professed her being pissed that she is jealous of me going out with any other women. It was epic sex.

Dropped her off at home three days ago and she was helping me with work related matters. Up to this point she didn't assist me because she was busy the whole week. Now that night she tells me about a friend whom she helped out all over town *same guy who called her when we were together at 1 am ..whom she dismissed at the time as a guy who only wants favors**

So yesterday the day before her bday she was distant .. I texted her and she called me ..we had a brief conversation and she brought up that I hung up on her .. and she was pissed and did the same to me .. I called her back twice and nothing... I sent her two messages and she called me ..telling me she is sleepy .. I said cool.. I see her today and she is detached and telling me we should only be friends .. I indicated we were never more than friends .. she kept bringing up that I fucked up and mentioned this to me on five different occasions during the conversation. I told her cool and as we kept talking she would tell me don't touch me .. but would smile slightly .. secretly enjoying this .. ultimately she told me that she was doing this to keep me from being hurt and that this was the first time she was ever honest with a man. In doing so she belittled everything that she once praised during our time together. It looked like she was distancing herself to make it easier .. funny how a few days ago I was the man of her dreams now all that is meaningless. Cool I say .. but I want to learn to be better not for her but for me.

So now we are friends without the fucking ..

Move on, she was honest with you and hasn't given up her stance. It also seems that she's big into mind games and I don't suggest trying to turn those girls into girlfriends. You had your fun, move on and game other girls.

Give things some space, work on you.