Complex situation with a girl who has a boyfriend of 4 years



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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 5:59 am 
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Forget that SnapChat shit.

Competitive anxiety. Build it. Not through overt tricks like physically sending her pics with you and other women ("Hey, look how much fun I'm having!!!1), but covert trickery. Girls pick up on this.

If you're thinking, "But if I play up I have other options, she might be repulsed..." Remember: this same chick has a boyfriend. If she's going to leave him for you, she has to know you're desired.
I dont understand this post at all. Can you explain?


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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:32 am 
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Overt - sending her pics with you and other women
Covert - flirt with other chicks, let her see that other chicks dig you.


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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 10:30 am 
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I didn't see the post you wrote about fucking her.

At this point, she's not resisting you. She's already given in. You control the pace.

You're at the best possible place. She's fucking you and you have zero obligation to be exclusive with her. She has a boyfriend, remember? If you make her yours, guess how that will end...

There are a lot of things you can do, but there's one thing you can't do: break down and give her the "it's me or him" speech.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 5:51 pm 
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You're right I would never date this girl but I mean she isn't leaving her boyfriend often enough to want to be with me. I never hear from her outside of a Tuesday when we have class together, the other days I feel like she is too busy for me.

Also, she never sees girls hitting on me because we don't go out together, she is too paranoid and scared to be out with me when her bf is there and her friends.


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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 4:57 am 
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Update: Saw her randomly at school today. She seemed interested in me and asking what I am up, when I asked her what she is up to she said "chilling with my bf later, its been a while since I have seen him..." I made some jokes and as always I am witty with her.

This weekend its her birthday and I joke around about being there and giving her a present ;) she says she isnt going to invite me to her party because she 1) doesnt want me in the same room as her bf and 2) doesnt want me to hook up with her friends

I teased her about it and was like fuck you (as a joke) but she got pissed and was like "stop guilt tripping me", now she is with her bf...

haha, fuckkked that up


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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 8:14 am 
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Is this right, the more I talk to her through text and such, the more I will mess up my chances...

I feel like things are starting to move forward, she is asking me what I am up to tomorrow night, I can tell she is interested in what I am doing?

This is really the first time she is showing interest, should I not be showing interest in her, i was texting her a lot tonight and I felt like I was being an idiot (had a lot of redbulls) texting her things and she was replying but I mean, she just texted me asking what I am up to tomorrow night,

Every part of me wanted to say Yeah I am going out to a club (make her jealous) but I didnt reply.

What you think?

The risk is, if i ignore her, she might be like.... wow he wants me for one thing, or not show interest anymore


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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 8:44 am 
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And lastly, she keeps saying to me, "I feel so bad, i shouldnt be doing this or seeing you, i have never cheated before in my life and i dont trust myself around you", what do you reply to that?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 4:24 pm 
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That is a tough one, but I can give you an advise to think of. That what if she became yours, probably she still has the potential to do the same thing to others if ever she's been initiated again. It could make you paranoid and lose focus on everything!


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 04, 2013 1:30 am 
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Wow bud, you weren't kidding, you're needy as hell mate. What difference does it make you see her once a week? she's not your girl, she's a fuck buddy, see her for what she is! you're investing way too much into this girl. Start gaming and seeing other girls


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 04, 2013 8:03 pm 
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Hey Gents,

2 nights ago she came over and it always starts out the same, we chill and she is not up for doing anything physical because she "feels bad". I escalate and escalate until it gets to the point where she can't resist.

This time, I fuck her without a condom, and I do it WELL, she first of all says I have the biggest dick and "head" that she has ever had and cant get enough of it, and when I am fucking her she says "you are the best I have ever had", and I make her say it again. I fucked her 5 times in a row, she couldn't believe it.

After all of it we laid there and she says she wants to do something with me outside of this room, where we can go somewhere and be together, any ideas on what to do?

We would have to take the car and go somewhere like an hour away, but what would be a fun thing to do?

Also, after all this, how do i play this? No contact for a bit?

I see her later tonight as we have class and then after we will probably chill.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 04, 2013 9:54 pm 
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First of all, I'm glad seeing you moving on and experience new things...

She must be super hot, but that's not a reason to ignore the fact she's absolutely no girlfriend material.
Remember how your world crushed when you found out your ex was cheating on you? Remember how miserable you were? You were cursing her like there's no tomorrow.. now you found yourself another one of those.

Seriously dude, just keep on f#cking her, use her for sex but DO NOT get emotionally attached.

You mentioned you'd never date her, now you are already planning to take her out to do some lovely shit together?
Far away so her boyfriend doesn't know what's going on?

Common man, she cheated on the first day she was at your place. You are already asking how to win her over so she thinks only about you. She's a slut bro, please get that in your head. There's nothing wrong with sluts, they are great to have fun with. But you have to realize: The second she finds a bigger cock who games her right, she's gone.

It has been said so many times on the forum, and it's 1 of the most important things to learn: Don't judge her by her words, judge her by her actions.

You strike me as someone who invests a lot in a girl right from the start, that's where your neediness comes from. You are young, in the end she's only a 9 according to you. If you are looking for something serious, find yourself a 10 who is relationship material.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 8:13 am 
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Hey Guys, and especially in reply to CMD's last post.

Things with me and her are moving forward, (as sad as that sounds considering the situation).

Last night she stayed over and i fucked her 5 times, once again she loved it although for me it gets repetitive being trapped in a room having sex a lot and then she leaves. When we were talking she told me that "she wishes she didn't have a boyfriend right now and that I get her and im like no other guy".

The worst part was, i was saying things back to her, emotional things now and then. I stopped myself from saying any more but we are planning on going some place an hour away to study for an exam coming up and chill together.

I dont know if this is good idea but I am falling for her, and I am trying to not. I mean the thing is, i know i have read posts in the past and people are like "this girl is different and yada yada yada", but the thing is, FOR ME... I havent connected with a girl like this before, she really is different to most girls, shes like a tom boy, loves house music, swears, lets me do all kinky stuff to her and she is cute at the same time and we finish each others sentences.

I dont know what to do, im already beginning to fall for her, and i dont want to. i just want to keep her on the side but im wondering if this is a choice or just something i can't control.

I wonder what she is up to when im not with her lately, and yesterday we went for a walk together and she told me she just wanted to hold my hand and such. I see myself texting her differnet (cute stuff) instaed of my witty alpha stuff.

I think i m going to back off for a bit, i dont know what to do or WHY i keep doing this


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 12:36 pm 
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I dont know what to do or WHY i keep doing this
You're doing this because she's your ONLY option and because you lack self control. Go hit on other girls, get another FB. It's always better to have two fuck buddies instead of one.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 12:57 pm 
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You wonder what she was doing? Hanging out with her BOYFRIEND stupid. Snap the fuck out of it. Sounds like your gonna ride this one into the ground to. You need to learn when to bail. So you've been cheated on before and it ended badly. This relationship started off on that same foot. Your just asking for it. He who lives by the sword, dies by the sword. I wish you could take a look from the outside looking in. You've got rose colored glasses on. It's just so obvious to anyone else. Sorry to be harsh and I'm sure it sucks but your signing up for the pain. I can't feel bad for you. I've been "the best" every chick I've fucked has "ever had". Lol shrug that off dude. Whores try to make you feel on top of the world. But they'll give you your highest highs and your lowest lows. Your "the king" until she gets bored. Then comes the lows.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 10:20 pm 
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I told myself everyday, do NOT fall for this girl do NOT but I did. I don't know why I am. Maybe it is because I dont have another girl in sight right now, she told me if I do, do not tell her if I do. 1 week ago I would of joked around and said something witty but now it was like, okay I wont have another girl.

She says these things to me, and I know she is with her boyfriend, but I know what we are feeling for each other is mutual.

I leave in 2 months as well out of here back to Europe, i haven't told her, but a part of me wants to stay haha. This is fucked I know. She is so hot and such a good fuck, we have the best sex and best chemistry.

How do I get this girl on my dick constantly, and then I know she is just another girl randomly wanting it and I can sarge others..


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