Hey guys,

I was chatting to a girl I knew from high school the other day and I was trying some techniques on her. I was was watching her eye movements and keeping eye contact to try figure out what kind of thinker she was. But the main point of this question is I was using the technique when you look directly at a girls lips as she is talking (This apparently makes them think of having sex with you without their control). As I did this I noticed she licked her lips after she finished speaking.

So I am asking does anyone know if this is a reaction of any sort, or if it is just something she is doing it because she is speaking a lot. If it does mean something what does it mean?

Pay closer attention to more signals next time. If she is attracted, the lip licking will usually be followed by a preen of some sort or pupil dilation. Being that u was staring at her lips, she prob got the unconcious thought that her lips were chapped. Now if she had licked her lips, then sort of let her to tongue kinda do it seducively or if she bite her lips after then that would be an ioi. Look for the clusters, not just one behavior

And besides that briefly(!) taking a glance at her lips (read a fraction of a second) is actually you showing to her that you are focussing on her lips and would want to kiss her. If she wants it as well she'll do similar without knowing. But as Darkie said, don't focus on one gesture, you have to watch the bigger picture.

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Each gesture is a like a word in that you need enough words to construct a sentence and then you will understand the meaning of what the girl is communicating.

Thanks guys, all good info.