Eye Contact and Kino Escalation:

Eye Contact:

I think I'm going to start off with my belief in the importance of eye contact. There is a big importance and necessity for it and if done right I feel that you can increase your success rate drastically.

First off when you see the girl you should lock eyes with her and make sure you don't break it. She should be the one that breaks it first. Even after that it is important to still keep your eye contact. Make sure that you never look away.

When you start getting used to this then you will feel her lock on and you can tell when you have the connection. So that is it for phase one. Now to move onto kino.

Kino Escalation:

This is what I have done for awhile, I have actually done this when I was a young man unconsciously. I usually get her to let me hold her hands. I can just put my hands out and tell her to put hers on mine or I have even made comments about a girl's nails in order to have an excuse for access to them without too much resistance.

Once you are holding her hands then you can get closer to her. Try to get within three inches or even closer if you can(Make sure you have good breath). You are of course doing all this while asking her questions about what she was doing earlier or what her name is.

You can start making statements about now. Make sure you don't talk too fast. Give yourself time to think of what you are going to say and still maintain strong eye contact. You can tell her about how adorable she is and that she looks like she is waiting for prince charming to come and sweep her off her feet, while smiling sarcastically(Tongue in cheek).

The idea is to treat her like you treat a girlfriend. Mimic the energy and get her feeling like you've known each other for years. You can even bring one of her hands up and kiss it like you would in the time of Mozart. All while maintaining eye contact. Remember to never break the eye contact.

The eye contact is what makes the interaction special. Your eyes and her eyes together like you two are the only people around and the whole world no longer exists.

So you just kissed her hand and come closer to break the gap. Now you can isolate her by telling her to come walk with you over here. You can isolate to a darker and more isolated area of a club or even take her outside if you are at a bar. Anywhere where there is not many people around.

If she follows and most of the time they will then sit down or put your back against the wall while keeping eye contact. Make sure you still have her hands in yours and lightly pull her toward you. Make sure she is always close to you when the two of you are stationary.

Now while looking in her eyes, you can move your hand in a half circular motion to lift her hair away from her face and proceed to kiss her. Move your face toward hers slowly and if she doesn't back her head away then kiss her.

If she decides that she wants to hesitate then tell her that you are sorry and that she is just so gorgeous that you couldn't resist. Ask her if she'd like to get coffee sometime and get her number. Now go up to another girl and repeat the process.

If I am able to get a girl to make out with me then I will start to glide my hand down to the center of her back. I will rub her back and forth while I continue kissing her. Then I will start rubbing the top of her buttocks and slide my hand in her pants half way.

After this I will stop kissing her and tell her I want to show her the Brooklyn bridge. I live in New York City and that is one of my favorite places to take girls if I can't take them to my place. So I grab their hand and lead them outside to grab a cab.

In the cab I will continue kissing and making out with them and suggest going to my place. I just tell them, "How bout we go to my place.". If they are up for it then I will go straight to my place. Most of the time they will be up for it. If not then I will go to the Brooklyn bridge and enjoy the night with them.

It is usually a 50/50 chance that I get them to go home with me when I take them to the Brooklyn bridge. If I am able to finger her when by the bridge then I almost always get her home.

So now I start putting my hand on her private after I see that she lets me put my hand in pants and feel her buttocks. I could probably even have sex by the bridge but I do like my privacy. All this time we are making out on a bench like a couple of dogs while hardly anyone is around. Now I have my hand feeling on her pants, directly over her private.

I start unbuttoning if it is too tight or I just but put my hand in her panties if she is wearing a skirt. Now I am fingering her. When I can tell she is really wet then I will just say let's get out of here.

Now I get a cab home and am making out with her in the cab. I live close to the Bridge so my logistics is perfect. We are at my place in five minutes flat. I pay for the cab and take her up to my place.

I tell her that we have to take our shoes off when we are in the apartment. I lead her to my room, sit her on the bed while giving her a kiss and turning on some music. I suggest something quiet and slow like Frank Sinatra or Marvin Gay if you are into that. Make sure you have a lamp that has a lamp shade that keeps the light dimmed.

Now I come sit next to her and kiss her on her neck a few times, closer and closer until I am close to her face. Then I kiss her lips and pull her close. We continue making out and lay down together. I start feeling on her buttocks, once again.

When I see that she is getting excited(Kissing me more enthusiastically) then I will move my hands around to her private and get it unbuttoned if needed. I will also interchange with her breasts and buttocks with the other hand while I finger her.

Next I'll grab her hand and put it on my crotch. If she is turned on by this then she will most likely unbutton my pants and start feeling it. I will start taking off her pants or panties now. If she lets me take off her pants/panties then I will get the condom, open it and have her put it on me while she is still stroking on my package.

However if there is last minute resistance then I will just keep fooling around and get what I can out of it. If I don't at least get her to rub me off with a hand-job then I will tell her I have to wake up early and send her on her way.

Most of the time if she is stroking and feeling on my crotch then I will have sex. Very rare have I had last minute resistance at this point. Especially in New York. So I get the condom on and put it in. Voila, mission accomplished.

That's the way I like to do it. Thanks for reading and let me know if I could try something more effective.

All the Best.

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great post man

Thanx

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Hi guys,

I just have a question here. A lot of people break the eye contact in less than 3 seconds.
Most of the time, I just smile to them and they will stare away.
What should I do next ? Do I approach them or are they not interested

I explained what you are supposed to do. Maintain eye contact and approach. Do a hand shake and escalate(hand holding).

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Good post man. Just one thing. Never apologize. If she backs away when you try to kiss her, just continue to caress her hand. Back off slightly and just bring up something on your mind or something random, just to let her know that her pulling away hasnt phased you. As long as it's an unrelated topic. I.e: "Wanna know why I love the ocean so much?"

Then, when you feel ready, give it another go.

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I do not like the post

What the OP is suggesting is going to creep out most of the women you lock eyes on. It's called starring. That's stalker type stuff.

Eye contact is not staring. Keeping eye contact shows that you don't doubt yourself.

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your telling this advice to guys that 99% of them who try it are going to creep the hell out of women. Trust me on this one bro

You are 99% wrong.

Out of 100 women, 1% will be creeped out.

You need to remember the number 1 rule of seduction is to not give a fuck.

If she's creeped out then that's her problem. Just move on to another girl who isn't being a stuck up bitch.

You will end up in the friend zone with the way you are thinking man. Plus you will waste a bunch of time that you could've used on a hot girl who was completely down to fuck.

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RedSky knows what he's talking about. Try what he's suggesting, THEN judge it.

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