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What is your typical approach? Do you go direct or indirect? And how to do you transition after your opener? And what are some of the exercises you do to incorporate humor into your "sarge"?
Situation: A girl, who seems to just be strolling by herself in a big city weekend evening.
PS: I could care less if you've had 800 women, or not. If you have something new and fresh that I can use, I'll be more than happy to try it.
He does not post anymore or often since he is busy working and fucking plus he is tired of the bullshit. Anyways, the way he approaches direct or indirect, but most of the time he uses situational openers, he is also very good at observing like most naturals and capitalizing or forcing approach invites from women.
This is more or less what he does explain in community terms, the author of this quote is guru by the name of iluminatus:
HOW NATURALS COLD APPROACH
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From what I've seen, a natural's cold approach goes down one of two ways:
1) They subcommunicate alphaness ON PURPOSE to the girl, in the form of a smile, wink, or cheeky comment. Typically they do NOT "plough on" with the pickup, but will wait for her to respond so they know if it's on or not. Naturals rarely waste time on a dead target as they tend to know from the start whether it's going to work out.
2) They spot an overexertion and capitalize on it. If she's fumbling with the menu, he could say "choose that one there". One that I made up is if the girl "accidentally" knocks into me at the bar, I turn around and say "Why don't you just rape me " which has worked great for me.
Because the girl did the overexertion, no matter how subtle, she knows she is in some way responsible for the interaction, and is therefore MUCH more likely to continue through to the end. There is a sense of investment, and that she's used her "wily girl ways" to get your attention.
A natural getting laid usually results from early interest from the woman, and nearly always goes down in this fashion. Most of the man's game is about escalating properly and not fucking it up at this point.
here is an example of things he does and one of my favorites of his game breakdown, i also included it in my book:
Here is Sexaddict911 and his club rituals:
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The game is different based on whether or not you plan to visit this club again. I usually assume I will be back (unless it is far out of town or I am on vacation). I do not have any outlines or model of what I do, but I do have some rituals that I tend to follow.
If you arrive at the club early, it is a good idea to spend some time with the staff. Being very polite and friendly can help you later on in the night.
Even before entering, talk to the doorman. Establish a good rapport with him. Get his name. Be extremely friendly. Try to be memorable. (This can help you in the future if you frequent the club again.)
I usually look for an attractive bartender (male or female). I will order a drink and then offer a very big tip, $5-$10. I will then say to them, “I am giving you this tip now to ensure great service from you. There will be another big tip at the end of the night.” This usually gets you served first, when you approach the bar when it’s crowded.
The reason I look for the most attractive bartender is because they usually have the most eyes on them when it becomes packed (while customers are waiting for drinks). So when you come to the bar to order another drink and they serve you first, it usually makes others wonder, What is so special about you?
Talk to the bouncers, establish a friendly rapport, get their names, and remember them. You never know when you may need their help. (Being seen with bouncers can often help you establish a sort of “Don’t mess with this guy” attitude from other alpha males in the club.)
After I have successfully worked the staff, I will then seek out a spot in the bar where I can see the most. I spend the next thirty to sixty minutes observing. (I will rarely work game right away unless it presents itself to me.) I will also do many laps of the club, getting myself seen and trying to establish eye contact with as many beautiful women as possible. When eye contact is established as I walk by, I will usually smile or make some sort of positive gesture, then keep walking. (I am not approaching anyone at this time.)
What I am looking for is simple tells, wedding bands/engagement rings, boyfriends, signs of interest—extended looks, smiles, smirks, attention, positive energy, dancing style, drunkenness ( too drunk is no good for my game), cock blockers, etc. All of these things are observed when trying to find a mark.
I will pick only one mark at a time. Sure, there may be ten girls I want to work on, but I will focus on only one at a time.
A very important element in a club setting is your comfort around other alpha males. It is wise to always find friendly ones, based on overheard conversation, etc. A very easy way to establish a friendship with them is to show your interest in the women in the club. (As a hot woman walks by, observe her, then look at the other guys observing her, then as she is gone, comment to the other men on how hot she was and what you would like to do to her.) It’s a form of mutual bonding, as all of you have the same intentions.
Never address a group of men. Talk to usually one or two men at once. Groups tend to have a group mentality, and often you can unconsciously be seen as an intruder, but talking to one or two members of the group can easily bring you into general acceptance.
The easiest way to get respect from guys in a club is to be good at dancing. Dancing is the best possible tool to have in a club setting. The better you are, the more respect you will garner. (If you are not in any way an alpha male, I suggest you learn to dance well.) It also sets you apart from the rest. Almost any dance floor in any club anywhere in the world is usually 80-90% women. Then out of the 10-20% of men on the dance floor, how many are dancing well or even dancing at all? If you are on the dance floor dancing well, you become a very small percentile, thus making you almost unique.
Becoming comfortable in your present setting is essential to starting your game in the right mindset. The better your mindset, the better your game.
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