So when my GF broke up with me i went no contact, this lasted about 3 weeks and yesterday i saw her at a party. I said normal hi etc. At the end of the party we talked for like 10 minutes and then she had to leave, when she left she gave me 3 kisses on my cheek and 1 on my mouth... Then i texted her this for fun:

Me: Dont kiss me on my mouth again or ill fall in love with you again
Her: I didn't do it on purpose :O:O:O
Her: So you will fall in love with me again?
-- * At this point her phone died and the conversation will continiue later*--
Me: Yeah if you kiss me on my mouth again .

Anyway, we went out with a big group to a local club, at the end of the night i was gonna go home and saw her, i asked her how she got here and she said bike, i asked her if i should ride a long (She lives 30 min bike from club and its in the dark and shit and she's always uncomfortable with it so i asked her that, not sure if i should've tho) she said "Your choice!" i said "Yes or no" she said "Well if ill get raped along the way ill let u know haha!" To me this was a sign she wanted me to come along so i said "text me if you're at your bike and ill come"

So we bike to her house and we have a fun conversation, we talked about our break up a bit and stuff like that, when we were at her house we stood there for 30 min talking and making jokes, it was really fun, we were also both a little bit tipsy.

She also did this like 3 times:

Her: ok i really gotta go now soo.... byebyeee
Me: ok, byeee goodnight
Her: Omg did i tell you about blabla

basically she said she had to go, i said bye, and she started talking about something new, as if she didn't want to leave, we also hugged for about 3 minutes or whatever.

At the end of this she was talking about her make up on her eyes, i told her let me see, close your eyes, i wont kiss you i promise. She closed her eyes and i came close with my mouth, she backed off with her head and laughed, i laughed too, i said: ok no jokes now, close your eyes and let me see, ill promise ill kiss you, again she closed her eyes and i tried to kiss her, she backed off a little bit and then she gave me a kiss on my mouth

--Then the conversation continiued because she texted me when she got home--

Her: Ooh nooo haha (*About the kiss and me falling in love again etc.)
Me: I told you you shouldn't kiss me again, you really have no boundaries do you?!
Her: haha no you don't!
Her: haha my dad blablablba (Normal conversation from here on)

Im kinda upset at this because, i kinda already made my peace that we were broken up, i was already gaming other girls and had set up a date for next week, and now after this i feel like my feelings kind of returned and i want her back.

What should i do guys? The next morning we had a conversation and i asked her if she wanted to join for drinks in the sun, she said "Sorry i can't i have other plans, next time ill come!"

So lets say i want her back, should i just keep doing what i am doing and let her come to me? (She was the one who broke up and i told her "Let me know if you change your mind" and she didn't say anything afterthat)

So i kind of dont want to chase her or anything so yeah, any advice is appreciated guys thanks.

bump, still not sure how to approach this

She broke up with you. Good to keep your distance. But from the first time you saw her you weren't in control of the situation nor the frame. Go and live your life a little, try opening other girls. And let her come to you. Let her make the all the moves and make her a bit jealous in between. If she does all this you get to be the one who rewards her for doing things as it should be. If after all that you still want her back you should see from there on.

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"Tonight you're a star and I'm the big dipper" - Prince

THIS. If she's really interested she'll come back to you, but I think you should just move on either way, she's playing head games with you.