there is absolutely no way to get kino, withought a girl pulling away...if there is a way what are some kino rountines?

Shaking someones hand is kino. Kino escalation is touching a person and getting them comfortable with you touching them. Making is a pleasurable thing they like, and look forward to.

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my question now is how?

cuz i'm actually stuck at high-fiving, I don't know how to get more lol. (thats so gay)

You put your hand on their arm/shoulder in a friendly manner. This makes them comfortable with you touching them and then from there, next time you can touch them with more confidence and firmness, followed by touching them in more intimate ways/areas, such as tickling, or massaging. Once you have gotten there, kiss closes are simple because they are so used to touching you and it doesn't feel like you're in their space, cause you've already been there.

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i saw this one video that explains it well, i don't know where it is but i will sum it up.

right from the moment when you first meet a girl, you wanna be known as the 'touchy' guy... or the guy that just touches a lot. for example, maybe you are trying to tell her something important, so you tap her hand, which shows that what you are saying is important, but you aren't being to aggressive. it is very important that you tap at first, just to get that 'touchy' feeling, and you are not just touching cause you want to feel her. another way to do this is you tap one of her biceps, and look deep into her eyes, for a split second, then remove your hand. what if she says something stupid? well just put your hand on her shoulder, and say in a voice like you are talking to a young child, "awww, it's funny when people say stupid things," and smile.

again, you want to establish a 'touchy' vibe, and not look like you are trying to make a move on her.

next, let's say you are wearing something interesting, and she grabs at it. what you do is grab her hands, trying to get it away from her, and you don't let go until you get the object. this is when you say, "i am not sure if you can touch that right now, maybe if you act polite i will think about it," then smile. if said right, she will understand this is a joke.

another method i made up for using kino is to buy those wristbands where you have to pull to tighten them, but you kinda need 2 hands to do it.
after you get one of these, you ask her, "ah crap, can you help me with this," then when it is about done, grab her hand tightly and say, "HA! it was a trap, let's see if you can escape." and laugh. I have used this one a lot, and it DOES work.

hope you get the just of this, if you need any more help just PM me.

If you touch somebody on the elbow while asking them to do something for you ...the are 70% more likely to do it than if you didnt touch them.

Just thought Id

Back her into a corner, she wont be able to go anywhere.

I've been working on my initial kino a lot lately. You'd be surprised how much you can get away with. High-fives, I'm notorious for those because I'm a high five fiend. But hugging when you meet a girl is a great way to go about it as well. As another poster wrote, touch her on her elbow when(if) you shake hands.

Personally I prefer hugs to handshakes, and I tell girls straight up I don't do handshakes, I'm big on hugs. They always get this huge smile and give me the best hugs ever.

Keep the kino going, when she deserves it, doing things like touching her shoulder, arms, upper back, high-fives, the "Casanova Crew Spin" hehe, and etc. In no time at all you'll have your arm around her and hers around you.

Lucky31337, one of the Casanova Crew originals is amazing with his initial kino in field. I've seen him open sets by spinning girls out, only to pull them back in to his waiting arms. It's all downhill from there, ha.

Keep at it man, you'll start to understand soon enough. Just experiment, see how much you can get away with...tastefully. No need to get slapped!

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I just touch thier arm (a little below the shoulder) lightly. Ill keep my hand there for only like a second. Also ill put my hand on their back when were shoulder to shoulder (when were walking or something). you could aslo just come up behind them and put your arm around them.

those are the kinos i usually use

I like the advice, especially just being upfront with the hugging thing "I don't handshake i'm big on hugs!" thats a nice line!

I'm going to work on arm touching while I talk too, but I am going to move into the hug thing like that one poster good advice!

The kino i use is in the form of encouragment while im having a conversation with a girl, or using a routine. For example if im about to do the 'Five Questions' routine i will explain it to her and then ask if she is ready, as im asking her this i will just tap or leave my hand on her leg or arm for a second, just as encouragment or confirmation.

Its strange how much subtle touching there is, and that you can get away with throughout a conversation. Just make sure that you dont leave ur hands on her for too long because then it becomes obvious!

Another thing i do is i peacock my belt... i wear quite casual clothes, normal colours that compliment my complexion, but i have a white belt covered in blue stars... when i ask them what they think of it... hands all over me and kino is easier from there on because the initial tension whether to get away with touchig has gone.

1..2..3...4....I declare thumb war! (instant kino)

Palm reading (I had a line of girls one night all wanting a palm read because their friend told them about me reading palms..lol)

Just like above posts KINO is the art of PHYSICAL FLIRTING. Hand shaking one of them, making EXCUSES to touch their hair, hand, skin. For example; try this: You SHAKE hands and notice the girl wearing rings on her finger. Turn hand hand and hold her hand by her fingers and look at the rings.
"Wow, you have amazing rings on: What's the story behind them?" or "Nice rings! Do you know what they mean to you?" This is creating an excuse to touch her.
If you want to TEST THE WATERS by getting in her SPACE. PLEASE do not make any sudden jerks or she will BACK AWAY! THat's not what you want, right? Good, now read on. Make it seem NATURAL! When it looks NATURAL the girl is more able to go with it. If you just grab her hand really FAST then she'll wonder why in the hell is this guy touching me! This is when she'll get to the CREEPED-POINT. CREEP-POINT is what you never wanna do with a lady.

So another example is while talking to her NOTICE her hair and ask, "Wow! You're hair is so shiny-what conditioner did you use this morning? Can I smell?" This will allow you to get in her SPACE and GENTLY grab her hair and putting it to your NOSE. FOLLOW-UP with either a NEG or a COMPLIMENT. A NEG would be, "You didn't smoke today did you? Because It smells like smoke!" If she says yeah then PROCEED the conversation by ROOTING a question :How long have you been smoking? ONNECTING by "You don't look like a smoker so I'm surprised!" She'll QUESTION and you ANSWER. This is how you create a HOOK-SET. A HOOK-SET is something to furture the interaction. When you've build enough RAPPORT and made her COMFORTABLE with you. You can then N-CLOSE.

Also here's anoter pointer: to be able to touch her use HAND GESTURES and make it look NATURAL by touching her gently on the upper arm or lower arm. This will create SEXUAL TENSION which will put you out of FRIENDSHIP ZONE. To use KINO Appropiately stand besides her where your body is facing away from her and your head is towards her. This will make her more COMFORTABLE and less DEFENSIVE. So your chances of REJECTION are slim. Good luck and remember, I'm looking out for you my friend!

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