About 2 months ago I talked to a pretty hot HB9 on OKCupid. I believe she gave me her number and even her FB, but I was kinda busy then and didn't called her nor added on my friend list. Plus I was with other chick at that time. Later I've deleted my OKC account and also lost her phone #.
Thing is, two days ago she added me on FB! I accepted her request (I noticed she is single), but instead of sending a normal message like "Hey, so you must be the funny/blabla chick who blabla me..blabla", I wanted to be the one who is chased so I sent "Hey! You seem quite familiar. I bet I know you from somewhere. Can't figure it out though...".
And guess what?! 15 minuted ago I opened her profile and she fuckin unfriended me!! Just like that!
Can I recover from this?

Unlikely.

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girl comes to guy, guy still games her......

you sank your own ship as you basically told a girl who knows you that "you don't know her." She either thinks you're a shallow, egotistical ass, or that she friended the wrong person by mistake. If you msg her back and tell her you know who she is, she'll think you're corny/immature for trying to game her in the first place.

If the deer shoots itself, and ties itself to the roof of your car, just take it home and skin it; there's no reason to try to hunt/kill it again.

lesson learned. I've done stupid shit too. lol

What is the point of gaming a girl? Stop playing games. Real men are intentional. If your intent was to have an affect on a girl, then you succeeded. Your action had a reaction that was congruent with itself. If you wanted to arrange a date to get to know a girl then your actions should have been congruent with that intent. If your intent is an easy lay with no strings attached then act like that's what you want.

Also, you are doing yourself no good by focusing on ONE girl. There is not ONE girl. There are many girls. Learn how to scoop girls. If this was your only lead then you are a poor salesman. Successful salesmen close of solid leads and learn to generate them. That's where the real money is.

Pickup is all Lead Generation. If you have many leads than you are outcome independent because if one lead doesn't work out then you can just move on to the next. Eventually you get better at generating SOLID leads. Then you learn how to close them.

It is foolish to go after every lead you have one by one. Keep generating more leads. Try to close a lead when you have ten leads.

Use this blueprint to get to the next level and repeat until you are black belt PUA status.

GFTOW

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