A friend of me, who I just started to hangout with, he studies psychology , older than me , behaving more alpha than me and who is experienced. Trying to play game on my gf , negging her , obvious making use of body language and dhving ,he also explained what is he studying and how he is applying it , like IoI's and Pick up stuff.

It's pretty obvious to me that he is practicing the art of pickup.

My gf has been giving iois to him, and showing interest, she's fucking into me but still , i feel a tiny bit of attraction from her side. Also giving him hints to hang out with him. I know my gf and I know she has lot's of guy friends, but with this guy, i don't know. maybe i shouldn't react this bad to this. He is trying to isolate her though, and my gf doesn't mind getting isolated, but she's just like that ( not in a slut way , she's really picky,and they share interests. )

Is there any reason to be worried?

How to take care of a bad future situation? ( Like him trying to K-close? )

And as last, is she testing me?

-Will.

Thanks for reading already, all help is appreciated!



-They're in the car right now , she's with 2 friends , i left 30 minutes ago, they're going for Mac Donald's .

You need to re-evaluate your inner circle if a "friend" is running game on your girl.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Yep. Hes no friend. Stop being his sidekick.

Tell her he's learned PUA to fulfill a goal of fucking a hundred girls in 6 months and he's up to number forty five now but struggling now.

Doubt she would want to be forty six, after all think of all the diseases he might have.

He is trying to join our circle , and he has accomplished, he's a nice guy, but I just don't like the fact of him gaming my gf.

I just want him to quit gaming my gf.
I can't remove him from the circle, because everyone accepts him.


How to stop him?

There's really no easy way to make the guy stop. Just ignore him. He's only really a threat if you act like he's a threat (or there's already a problem with your relationship). Hot girls get hit on.. a lot. It's just something that guys in relationships have to get used to. I'm sure your girlfriend can handle it. Your job is to step in and whisk her away if the flirtation ever makes her uncomfortable.

If it really bothers you that much, then read up on AMOG'ing (i.e. Alpha Male Other Guy) tactics. I don't really use stuff like that anymore, but, then again, I'm pretty okay with guys hitting on my girlfriends as long as they aren't being dicks about it.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

As the previous fellow said,AMOG.If you don't want to research much on that or feel it won't succeed,just talk with the guy...use slang PUA words in front of him so that he know you know JK.
Just don't let the situation get out of hand and become beta,thus losing your gf !

Hah my girl gets hit on all the time in the gym, often within seconds that I turn my back on her to go do another set. Don't react to it or you will create problems. The more resistance you give to it the more influence it'll have on your relationship.

AMOG or shame the prick. Or mindfuck her a bit too. Make sure you don't come across as annoyed.
Here a a couple of things to say

To the prick: Hey, mate, I think she wants a threesome with you and me. You don’t mind some accidental sword crossing?
or
To her: “Babe, I think Name wants to fuck you. It’s so obvious. I’m… sure you’ve noticed it”

For longer term/future, I suggest hitting the gym and bulking up/taking up MMA or stand up fighting. No one is going to risk their teeth to talk to a girl. I have never had a problem with a friend or stranger hitting on my gf in front of me. Only happens when I'm away.

If the guy is in the inner circle, that makes it difficult. Wolf's suggestion isn't all bad, but I tend to like to control situations rather than let them develop on their own.

It sounds to me a little bit like this new guy is telling your girl about PUA tactics, and she is finding it interesting. If you have a problem with it, I suggest showing her what you know about PUA as well. She's going to find out either way, why not be the guy to educate her. By doing so, when this dbag is running game on your girl, she'll know exactly what he's doing.

In this regard, I've seen Wolf and other post about women they are with that know the game. I'm curious if they told them, or if these women knew it anyways.