Guys, something you need to think about in the field . . . is turning your normal thought processes around. Most guys think . . . that girl is hot. She's the prize. She has the sex that I need. I have to work to get it from her. BULLSHIT.

For instance, one night, I was in the club. Talking to a 9. We're dropping sexual innuendos with each other. The body language is there. The kino is there between us. The playful vibe is strong.

Suddenly, she makes a comment about us having sex.

I come back with . . . "I never said you were getting sex with me tonight. You haven't earned that."

Her mouth dropped in shock. She stepped back, looked at me, (this was all happening while we stood in the middle of the dance floor in a crowded club, while the band was on stage talking) and said "that's my line." I gave her a cocky smile and shook my head.

Needless to say she moved closer to me and started qualifying herself more at that point. Started sharing her phone with me, talking about her family, who she was texting, blah blah blah.

Guys, turn your mindsets around. It will work wonders.

You are right LA that the mindset has to be there. WE ARE THE PRIZE!!! It's a priveledge for them to talk to you, and be around you. You are allowing them to hang out with you. That's the frame of the "10" that LA talks about so much! When you have that, the confidence you exhuberate makes it easier.

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OMG lock and bury this thread before anyone sees it!

This is one of the primary elements of my game. If word spreads I'll be fucked...wait, I mean I won't be.

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a good read is swinggcats guide... he talks alot about not prizing her, and prizing urself... buy it for $1 then cancel the subscirption cuz in 7 days he charges $40!

I agree

Agreed.

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~ Rye

Someone said in the PUA Chat that canned material does not only refer to lines coined by mPUA's, that it can be memorized material of your own that you throw in to keep conversation flowing.

I use canned material sometimes to do just that, both my own and those from this website.

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Well, the fact is that it is true, any girl should be aware that you are the price. Men like us don't grow on trees. We have to be made by working hard. Thus we are rare, and they should be gratefull if we decide to spend time with them.

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When i started out i got into this mindset real good, i got out of practice a little and my esteem has dropped a little over the past couple of weeks, Cheers for reminding me Tripp!

Theres so much that goes with this as well liking setting standards and the general alpha game. Love yourself a little!

Yep, that was me. Thanks for the props, Roads . . . You're cool dude, hehe.

Hey ChrisRocks, it's cool man. Trust me, we all fall out of this mindset from time to time. I"m just glad we're here to help each other out.

Good point LA. And I also would like to add then when you think of a woman as "beautiful," "an HB," or what not and you are still in the early stages of your game where AA is present in abundance then I would reccomend doing a few things.

1) Stop calling women beautiful, or adding any physical description to them. It's just another girl, in fact, probably a dumber one for that matter, and you have no problem talking to UGs who are smart do you?
2) If you aren't going to approach a woman, you don't even deserve to look at her. Plain and simple. If you want to start looking at the girls, then start approaching!

2 rules that helped me out, and still do, when I feel AA- might not work for anyone else but hey what the heck

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Great advice, this helps me out to no end, I love that feeling that you get when they are qualifying to you and suddenly - like a kick to the head - you realise "shit I am in control" "she wants me?!"

Now my response is "of course she does" whereas before it was more - "no way outta my league etc etc"

Best feeling in my short time since joining the site.

Cheers

J

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Formally Known as Rorschach87.

Yeah, I tends to call stuff made by the big names "pre-packaged" canned material, because it has been conveniently packaged for mass production.

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Awesome. Guys we should chat again sometime, haven't heard from you all in awhile.

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We all strive to "BE THE MAN" but when I am out, I am alot of the times thinking back in the past to where a girl was the "prize" to me and sex was what i was after.... I recall the way the talked to me and acted towards me, now I act as a woman would talk to man who wanted sex... every thing she does is her hitting on me or tryign to seduce me.. I call her on every thing!!