Heey guys I'm new here and I hope I post this in the right section. I am dutch so sorry for typo's..

I need some serious help because I am starting to really screw things up.. I only had 1 date so far wich I got from kissing a girl in the club getting hr nr and meeting next day. Now I started going online. And I manage to quite easy get connections with girls, get their phone nr and have nice talks. Of some I even get to know their entire sexlive..

But.. over the last 20 girls I had on my phone I did not had ONE date. When I ask if they wanne go for a drink they say: ''I don't meet so fast''. This is after 2-3 days. Now then I need to keep the conversation up or the connection for the other weeks. Wich I don't know how to do and here I lose them all..

And usualy the girls that I don't like.. Are the ones who keep starting conversations with me. And the ones I really like I don't dare to stop talking to them cozz most of the times they don't start conversations while we did had a really nice beginning..

I currently have 6 girls in my phone of wich 1 I know for 2 days. 1 for 4 days and the rest over a week.. Plenty of experimenting.

I would just try meeting girls in person, setting up a meeting online is way more sketchy.

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Yea.. But I am a cyclist and I NEVER go out anymore.. So I don't meet anyone..
And errr.. I don't really like seducing girls on the streets.. And I fail in stores hehe

So make the effort to go out and meet people.
If you don't put yourself out there, it's never going to happen. Can't just sit in your cave on your computer and get girls like that. Sorry man but it's the truth.

yeah dude if you want to talk about someone who almost literally never goes out, it's me. I don't like parties and clubs bc I'm too insecure. But it's all about facing your fears. I know that I'm a really cool guy and that people love me once they get to know me. I'm just really shy.

So I've been going to the mall to say hi to chicks. At first, even going to the mall when I know it's busy wouldn't have been an option due to my insecurity. But now, it's not a big deal. Saying hi to girls was once a lot worse than it was, but that's not such a huge problem for me anymore (though I still shy away from saying hi to the really hot girls). I'll get over this soon though and then move on to approaching. It's all about taking it in baby steps.

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