Started dating/seeing(whatever term you wanna use) about 2 months ago and we have both been very open and honest about everything. In the last month, things have gotten much more "steady" with us texting everyday and seeing each other 2-3 times a week(having sex at least once a week). By her own accounts, she is your typical "good girl" who is 26YO and has "allegedly" only slept with 6 guys before me(she had like a 6 year relationship from 17-23). I knew going in to it(she has been very open) that she had an ex BF that cheated on her about 6 months ago but, yesterday she drops another big WTF on me.

She begins the conversation by asking if I'm "looking for a relationship". I answer that I think it is stupid to look for a relationship because then you end up settling but, that I am open to a relationship with the right person and give her a kiss(because she is awesome). She follows with telling me about an ex from her past that resurfaced at the beginning of us dating, and that how two weeks ago she got texts from HIS FIANCEE to leave him alone. She said that during their relationship that he was always way more "into it" than she was, and would constantly talk about them being together forever. She proceeds that with telling me that that was the only light she ever saw him in(WTF does that mean?). She claims she had no prior knowledge that he was engaged, and I have no reason not to believe her because she has never lied to me before. Therefore, she states that she is in an even worse place than she was at the beginning of us dating but, that she "loves the time we spend together, is happy when we are together, and always misses me when she is not with me".

She said she did this because she wanted to continue to be open with me and to let me know so I could decide if "i wanted to pursue things further." I told her that in the end this is not an issue that I need to sort out, and that she is the one that needs to figure things out because I am going to continue to advance the relationship.

She has stated her trust issues about men in general and specifically things that made her question me. I have always been completely honest with her, whether she liked it or not. She told me that she had been struggling on whether or not to trust or not trust me based on some of my answers to her questions because I don't lie to her. I knew before her telling me this that this was the case...because I'm not an idiot. I told her that that is the reason that I said she can ask me anything and I will give her an honest answer regardless of whether or not she is going to like the answer.

The rest of the night proceeded as normal, with plenty of PDA and just being comfortable and affectionate in general with each other in public. We are both clearly emotionally invested in this relationship but, I don't really feel like getting more emotionally involved if she is just going to all of a sudden put up a brick wall and cut me off.

I do want to make this girl my girlfriend and I feel like just telling her that she needs to figure things out, and until then I will not talk or see her until she does. BUT, I don't know if that is the right move due to her fragile state, and due to the fact that even after this "talk" nothing changed whatsoever.

Any Help is appreciated ladies and gents! CHEERS!