Hello everyone, Ive been out for a while, mostly because things have been good. But this is something that has been kinda bugging me for a few months back.

My girlfriend's sex drive has lowered soo much, when we first met each other we were having sex non stop" in the car, in the restrooms, in every motel in town, her house, my house, even friends houses... I'm gonna marry her this year. Although for the past 2 or 3 months, her libido has been really low, we haven't had as much sex as we used to do. Down from maybe 4 or 5 times a week to 1 or 2... sometimes more if lucky. She even tells she doesn't know why it is. She is diabetic, and maybe she was a few sugar imbalance. During the day she would sometimes admit to wanting to have sex with me, but when we get to the bed, she is too tired, and it feels ugly for me, being all turned on to be shot down so bad. I've been loyal to her for all the time we've been together, Im not planning on cheating just for sex. But I don't know what could be a good advice, I don't know why her libido is so low, maybe I need more courtship on her, or more small details. One thing is for sure, when we do have sex, she is orgasming like crazy and acts very hot and nasty. I just wish it would be more often.

Change it up some, introduce some new stuff into the bedroom. You should know what she likes so tease her with it.

Go to a doctor. See if there is something physically wrong that can be fixed. If not, communicate, figure out what in her lifestyle makes her energy lower.

you might benefit from reading some stuff on the internet bout what affects a womans sexual desires sometimes. Stress can effect women, and it can come from many different things: her job, bills, even getting married. You said you were getting married later this year. You said "One thing is for sure, when we do have sex, she is orgasming like crazy and acts very hot and nasty." this is a good thing. After you read some of this stuff you might want to discuss with her some of it. Also like others have said, change things up a little. After being in a LTR, sometimes just teasing sexual desire during the day will build sexual tension throughout the day and she will want to jump you when she get home.

Thanks for your information, maybe I have lost somewhere along the way the teasing and the building sexual tension parts, like when we started dating, wed build so much sexual tension, that by the end of the day we were fucking non stop, now I kind of think its more of a duty of her to give me sex, instead of creating the good ol passion and lust craving in her, being more like when we started dating. Im doing some changes on this days, maybe go out on a small trip, etc.. kinda like if she wasnt my girl and I was trying to woo her, re-seduce her in other words. I feel bad because I have even thought about cheating, though I haven't done it, the simple thought makes me feel bad.

Coming from a former cheater, your feelings are right on the money. You're better off getting out of the relationship first.

I agree with all the others. Don't suggest the doctor thing first. Make it a last resort. I suggest that you completely change the game up on her. Do some back door work and get her a day off work or something, and then go do whatever your favorite thing to do is. All day long while you do that, kiss her. Touch her. Don't come out and tell her you want to fuck her brains out, just make her feel sexy, loved, desired. Guarantee that she will be primed by the day's end.

Once you have that in her head, all you gotta do from there is drop little hints throughout the day when life is back to normal.

The reason the special day thing needs to happen first is because it sounds like sex is a chore for her now. So you insinuating things or dropping lines about it just makes her think of one more chore she has to do when she get's home, etc. Make it something SHE WANTS to do. Also, keep in mind, the less you ask for sex, the less needy you look. If you're getting married, there's going to be times when you gotta take care of yourself. You might as well learn how to do it now, before you're married.

If all that fails, then it's time to see a doctor.

Sounds to me like the 'chemistry' has worn off for her- big time. Nothing you can do man. My advice, next her and GFTOW and her sex drive will go through the roof for you....

All the while you do this, keep your cool with her- don't be needy/clingy and maintain a little more distance. Tease her more, and don't give her any indication you want sex with her. Casually drop lines about other women chasing after you and grabbing your crotch on the dance floor etc when out clubbing with friends or some other crap to make her jealous and make her want to fuck you into oblivion.

You could also become more dominant/kinky/perverse with her- sixty nine her while standing up and holding her, fuck her in the ass HARD (don't even ask her) or eat her ass out (girls LOVE this)- I'm serious. It sounds like this girl has become desensitized to you sexually- her sexual dopamine levels have plummeted and you need to seriously 'spice' things up with her.

One other point I should make- you should NEVER EVER ASK girls for sex, you should be GAMING them so much by being as non-needy/attractive as possible that they will want to glue their mouths to your dick...or wake you up in the morning with breakfast, wearing a maid outfit, asking to be fucked in the ass HARD up against the wall.

Remember to keep teasing her, playing hard to get, acting like your the prize and you will make MUCH more progress with her. I suggest also freezing her out and DENYING HER of sex for a while- wait until she asks YOU for it before you two even do it again... I'm dead serious!

Now go make this bitch your sex slave, my friend...