So I went to this new strip club near my area with two other friends of mine and it was are first time going to a strip club. We sat down girls keep bothering us asking for dances but we rejected all of them. This one girl came up toward me and she introduced herself, furthermore we had things in common because she's a gamer chick talking about Call of duty and what she does on her free time when she's not stripping. The funny thing was the Miami Heat were playing the pacers on the Big screen TV in the strip club, so I used that to my advantage and said if Miami Heat Win I get your number But if they loose you get my number either why it was a win win and I told her to take a seat and she did. So Miami Won and I got her number, then the question came "Do you want to Dance" I said "No today" once I said that she said "That's fine" still sat down for a good 15 minutes and once she left she gave me a hug while I was sitting in my chair.

During the time she was sitting she was feeling my Chest, Leg and I was feeling her thighs AND this conversation between me and her lasted about 30 -45 minutes while she can be asking other guys for lap dances but she didn't.

What should I do know, I got the number. . . My boys said she was into me and it's easy to get

WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK!

Strippers don't give real IOIs. Get her to come out with you and rebuild the attraction and make her comfortable with you outside of work. DO NOT go back to the club and see her there. You've really got to understand the stripper lifestyle and let her know that you understand the stripper lifestyle. Let her know that you realize what her reality is like. JUST DON'T TALK ABOUT HER BEING A STRIPPER!!!! She is a person. That is her job. Just be the type of guy who strippers would date.

I love strippers. They are my favorite

[quote="TheMajikalMethod"][quote="UniqueTalent"]So I went to this new strip club near my area with two other friends of mine and it was are first time going to a strip club. We sat down girls keep bothering us asking for dances but we rejected all of them. This one girl came up toward me and she introduced herself, furthermore we had things in common because she's a gamer chick talking about Call of duty and what she does on her free time when she's not stripping. The funny thing was the Miami Heat were playing the pacers on the Big screen TV in the strip club, so I used that to my advantage and said if Miami Heat Win I get your number But if they loose you get my number either why it was a win win and I told her to take a seat and she did. So Miami Won and I got her number, then the question came "Do you want to Dance" I said "No today" once I said that she said "That's fine" still sat down for a good 15 minutes and once she left she gave me a hug while I was sitting in my chair.

During the time she was sitting she was feeling my Chest, Leg and I was feeling her thighs AND this conversation between me and her lasted about 30 -45 minutes while she can be asking other guys for lap dances but she didn't.

What should I do know, I got the number. . . My boys said she was into me and it's easy to get

WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK![/quote]

Strippers don't give real IOIs. Get her to come out with you and rebuild the attraction and make her comfortable with you outside of work. DO NOT go back to the club and see her there. You've really got to understand the stripper lifestyle and let her know that you understand the stripper lifestyle. Let her know that you realize what her reality is like. JUST DON'T TALK ABOUT HER BEING A STRIPPER!!!! She is a person. That is her job. Just be the type of guy who strippers would date.

I love strippers. They are my favorite [/quote]

Yes, you sound like my friends who said to take her out somewhere and "Go in then out". But should I be texting her 24/7 or twice a week or call her and take her out soon. Thanks for your reply

CALL her. Don't text her.

You want to be different than every other guy that she is talking to. She is a stripper. She is in HIGH DEMAND. You want to stand out. You having the balls to pick up the phone and tell her to come out will make the world of a difference.

Remember though... She is probably a busy, busy, busy girl. I've dated a few strippers. Most of them model or do something else on the side. Stay busier than she is and don't let think that she is the only thing on your mind.

[quote="TheMajikalMethod"][quote="UniqueTalent"][quote="TheMajikalMethod"][quote="UniqueTalent"]So I went to this new strip club near my area with two other friends of mine and it was are first time going to a strip club. We sat down girls keep bothering us asking for dances but we rejected all of them. This one girl came up toward me and she introduced herself, furthermore we had things in common because she's a gamer chick talking about Call of duty and what she does on her free time when she's not stripping. The funny thing was the Miami Heat were playing the pacers on the Big screen TV in the strip club, so I used that to my advantage and said if Miami Heat Win I get your number But if they loose you get my number either why it was a win win and I told her to take a seat and she did. So Miami Won and I got her number, then the question came "Do you want to Dance" I said "No today" once I said that she said "That's fine" still sat down for a good 15 minutes and once she left she gave me a hug while I was sitting in my chair.

During the time she was sitting she was feeling my Chest, Leg and I was feeling her thighs AND this conversation between me and her lasted about 30 -45 minutes while she can be asking other guys for lap dances but she didn't.

What should I do know, I got the number. . . My boys said she was into me and it's easy to get

WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK![/quote]

Strippers don't give real IOIs. Get her to come out with you and rebuild the attraction and make her comfortable with you outside of work. DO NOT go back to the club and see her there. You've really got to understand the stripper lifestyle and let her know that you understand the stripper lifestyle. Let her know that you realize what her reality is like. JUST DON'T TALK ABOUT HER BEING A STRIPPER!!!! She is a person. That is her job. Just be the type of guy who strippers would date.

I love strippers. They are my favorite [/quote]

Yes, you sound like my friends who said to take her out somewhere and "Go in then out". But should I be texting her 24/7 or twice a week or call her and take her out soon. Thanks for your reply[/quote]


CALL her. Don't text her.

You want to be different than every other guy that she is talking to. She is a stripper. She is in HIGH DEMAND. You want to stand out. You having the balls to pick up the phone and tell her to come out will make the world of a difference.

Remember though... She is probably a busy, busy, busy girl. I've dated a few strippers. Most of them model or do something else on the side. Stay busier than she is and don't let think that she is the only thing on your mind.[/quote]


Wow you must be my friend lol. He said the exact same damn thing you just said, but I felt we had a connection because we talked for about 30 -45 minutes and she is like a gamer chick saying she has both xbox and ps3 and having all the Call Of Duty games and she named all of them plus saying what her fav game is and She says before she goes to work (Stripping) She plays games and after work plays games.

This is just a confusing girl I can not read. And Yes I play games too (Connection)

BAHAHA! Yeah... Alot of dancers are into video games I've noticed. They are some of the coolest, most down to earth chicks that there are out there. Just let her have fun around you and forget about everything else that is going on in her life.

When you are talking to her, make everything completely unrealistic and funny.

Talk about stupid shit.... Talk about heisting airplanes and flying to Jamaica to take over a mansion and sit around naked all day, playing first person shooting video games, eating Cheetos and you will make a living through illegal street racing. Future planning but way the fuck out of line with real life. So many guys will tell her how they will give her such a great life and spoil her... Make it fun.

Again... just let her have fun and she will LOVE being with you.

[quote="TheMajikalMethod"]BAHAHA! Yeah... Alot of dancers are into video games I've noticed. They are some of the coolest, most down to earth chicks that there are out there. Just let her have fun around you and forget about everything else that is going on in her life.

When you are talking to her, make everything completely unrealistic and funny.

Talk about stupid shit.... Talk about heisting airplanes and flying to Jamaica to take over a mansion and sit around naked all day, playing first person shooting video games, eating Cheetos and you will make a living through illegal street racing. Future planning but way the fuck out of line with real life. So many guys will tell her how they will give her such a great life and spoil her... Make it fun.

Again... just let her have fun and she will LOVE being with you.[/quote]


Thanks for your advice man, Appreciate it

1) Calling is always better than texting as someone has said. You should avoid texting a chick at all costs unless it to tell her you're 5 minutes late or you're changing the venue before a date.

2) Treat her like you would ANY other woman. Yes, she's high in demand. Men paw over her at 500x your typical woman (even a 9 or a 10). The mistake is that guys place these strippers on a pedestal. (example: stutter, get high off of any attention she gives him, etc.)

3) These strippers are risque and lead a different lifestyle. But, if you met them during the day you wouldn't know that they were strippers unless they told you. In fact, you don't know this chick at all. One chick I knew that was a stripper had a master's degree and came from a wealthy family. She was just rebellious with a down-to-earth personality. In fact, I found out about her job through a mutual friend.

Here's the bottom line: How you got the number wasn't "win win". You boxed her into a corner to have a phone number exchange. Depending on what kind of lifestyle she leads, hell, she may have a separate phone number or just gave it to you for the hell of it. You will not know the real deal until you PICK UP THE PHONE and use it my brother.

Call her. Treat her like any other chick. Ask her out for a drink. Stay off her profession and stick to getting to know her. You're gonna put her to work and make her show you some substance.

She's in the driver seat if you stick to talking about stripping
You're in control if you stay off of it since she'll have to prove she's more than a pair of "t and a" to you since you're a man of substance.

Good luck

[quote="MacDandy"]1) Calling is always better than texting as someone has said. You should avoid texting a chick at all costs unless it to tell her you're 5 minutes late or you're changing the venue before a date.

2) Treat her like you would ANY other woman. Yes, she's high in demand. Men paw over her at 500x your typical woman (even a 9 or a 10). The mistake is that guys place these strippers on a pedestal. (example: stutter, get high off of any attention she gives him, etc.)

3) These strippers are risque and lead a different lifestyle. But, if you met them during the day you wouldn't know that they were strippers unless they told you. In fact, you don't know this chick at all. One chick I knew that was a stripper had a master's degree and came from a wealthy family. She was just rebellious with a down-to-earth personality. In fact, I found out about her job through a mutual friend.

Here's the bottom line: How you got the number wasn't "win win". You boxed her into a corner to have a phone number exchange. Depending on what kind of lifestyle she leads, hell, she may have a separate phone number or just gave it to you for the hell of it. You will not know the real deal until you PICK UP THE PHONE and use it my brother.

Call her. Treat her like any other chick. Ask her out for a drink. Stay off her profession and stick to getting to know her. You're gonna put her to work and make her show you some substance.

She's in the driver seat if you stick to talking about stripping
You're in control if you stay off of it since she'll have to prove she's more than a pair of "t and a" to you since you're a man of substance.

Good luck[/quote]

Thank you for your reply, I got the number This Wednesday and haven't called her or texted her yet. I'm going to call her and do a little small talk and either tell her you wanna go for a drink or a movie

Thanks again

here are some things to know about strippers.

I was married to one for nearly 5 years(together for nearly 12 years)...

They give out numbers all the time. Most strippers who do it full time have a "burner phone" one of those prepaid things they can just toss. Most of the time(not all) they give out that number so they can tell you where they are working. My ex did it all the time, so did many of her co workers.

now lets assume she only has one phone. Call her(as suggested above) take her out if she is interested, but do not be the typical guy. ALso try to break through her "cover story." almost every stripper has a generic story they can tell customers to either keep the weirdo's away or the cash cows nearby. its just business, not personal. If you can get the real story on her and things are going well congrats, most guys cant. Do not ask her about her work, ask her about her life. Does she have kids, did she go to college etc. The minute you begin talking to her about stripping she will change into "stripper mode" and the ioi's you get will be from that persona. Avoid talking about her job for at least the entire first date.

putting her on a pedestal is useless, all her customers do that. Be different, treat her like a person, not a whore. Most of her customers do that as well. If she starts acting like a stripper or begins talking about being one change the subject to something non stripper.

there is more, but remember EVERY guy she has met treated her a specific way because of her job. Don't be that guy.

Alternatively she could be a complete whore and just want to bang you. be on the look out for that as well, she could be a pro looking to make extra cash. or just a plain slut.

[quote="JRBobDobbs"]here are some things to know about strippers.

I was married to one for nearly 5 years(together for nearly 12 years)...

They give out numbers all the time. Most strippers who do it full time have a "burner phone" one of those prepaid things they can just toss. Most of the time(not all) they give out that number so they can tell you where they are working. My ex did it all the time, so did many of her co workers.

now lets assume she only has one phone. Call her(as suggested above) take her out if she is interested, but do not be the typical guy. ALso try to break through her "cover story." almost every stripper has a generic story they can tell customers to either keep the weirdo's away or the cash cows nearby. its just business, not personal. If you can get the real story on her and things are going well congrats, most guys cant. Do not ask her about her work, ask her about her life. Does she have kids, did she go to college etc. The minute you begin talking to her about stripping she will change into "stripper mode" and the ioi's you get will be from that persona. Avoid talking about her job for at least the entire first date.

putting her on a pedestal is useless, all her customers do that. Be different, treat her like a person, not a whore. Most of her customers do that as well. If she starts acting like a stripper or begins talking about being one change the subject to something non stripper.

there is more, but remember EVERY guy she has met treated her a specific way because of her job. Don't be that guy.

Alternatively she could be a complete whore and just want to bang you. be on the look out for that as well, she could be a pro looking to make extra cash. or just a plain slut.[/quote]


Thank you for your reply and your experience. Too you and everyone still willing to help a fellow friend out, I texted her Wednesday and called and texted Friday but when calling her it said "The number you dialed is not in service, please check your number and try again" and didn't receive a phone call or text back. I don't know if her phone was off, out of battery, Canceled her phone, lost it etc. Well I think I'm just let her go or maybe call her next week.

If you can help me with this situation I will be very grateful, I know "Strippers" are very believable but this one was very different like I mentioned above.

Thank you to everyone willing to read and help a fellow member out.

She gave you a bad number lol o well... shit happens. Next........

[quote="TheMajikalMethod"][quote="UniqueTalent"][quote="JRBobDobbs"]here are some things to know about strippers.

I was married to one for nearly 5 years(together for nearly 12 years)...

They give out numbers all the time. Most strippers who do it full time have a "burner phone" one of those prepaid things they can just toss. Most of the time(not all) they give out that number so they can tell you where they are working. My ex did it all the time, so did many of her co workers.

now lets assume she only has one phone. Call her(as suggested above) take her out if she is interested, but do not be the typical guy. ALso try to break through her "cover story." almost every stripper has a generic story they can tell customers to either keep the weirdo's away or the cash cows nearby. its just business, not personal. If you can get the real story on her and things are going well congrats, most guys cant. Do not ask her about her work, ask her about her life. Does she have kids, did she go to college etc. The minute you begin talking to her about stripping she will change into "stripper mode" and the ioi's you get will be from that persona. Avoid talking about her job for at least the entire first date.

putting her on a pedestal is useless, all her customers do that. Be different, treat her like a person, not a whore. Most of her customers do that as well. If she starts acting like a stripper or begins talking about being one change the subject to something non stripper.

there is more, but remember EVERY guy she has met treated her a specific way because of her job. Don't be that guy.

Alternatively she could be a complete whore and just want to bang you. be on the look out for that as well, she could be a pro looking to make extra cash. or just a plain slut.[/quote]


Thank you for your reply and your experience. Too you and everyone still willing to help a fellow friend out, I texted her Wednesday and called and texted Friday but when calling her it said "The number you dialed is not in service, please check your number and try again" and didn't receive a phone call or text back. I don't know if her phone was off, out of battery, Canceled her phone, lost it etc. Well I think I'm just let her go or maybe call her next week.

If you can help me with this situation I will be very grateful, I know "Strippers" are very believable but this one was very different like I mentioned above.

Thank you to everyone willing to read and help a fellow member out.[/quote]

She gave you a bad number lol o well... shit happens. Next........[/quote]

Lmao, I still don`t understand. I texted her on Wednesday and she replied on the same say. But on Friday same week, couldn't`t contact her and no reply. . . Mind Blown. Should I even text her again for the last time and see if she reply's. If she does reply what should I start out saying. . .

Thank you again for your reply's very helpful

SCRATCH THAT. She texted me back and saying she was at work. . . Deleted it, one to the next