Long story, but there is this girl I like. I was messaging her online for a while, until she says that she recently got back with her ex boyfriend. I am asking her things like, can we talk on SPAM? Do this or that? Then she tells me "I have to ask my boyfriend about that" which I find the most ridiculous thing. One thing is that I am thinking to use the straw man technique on her (straw-man-technique-vt43374.html) but I dont know how exactly to use it on her, any help would be appreciated. Second , I find it ridicicous that she has to ask her "boyfriend" about it. Why can't she do it herself? Why does her boyfriend suddenly have to be charge of anything , i thought her parents were. It's her life she should do anything she wants, thats my opinion. She can create a facebook account by herself , wouldn't it sound strange if she has to ask her boyfriend if she can create one? He should not be able to dominate her life like this. Anyway what do you guys think? I need some help here , i really like this girl , but like most guys , we dont like the boyfriends that they have. Any help would be great thanks!

Jokingly tell her she's pussywhipped.
Honestly, I don't think she's interested or she'd jump at the chance to out with you.

Good luck!