Hi guys, guess this a easy one for you.

I wouldprey for all of you if someone could help me.

Im kinda new to this world, so please forgive me if I do something shitty without knowing it.

She - guess you would call it a HB10 - is one of the best friends of a friend (female) of mine. I´ve never met, chatted or talked to her. So after seeing some of her pictures on Facebook I went Brain-AFK and hit the friend request button. After some hours she acceppted it. Now my friend asked me why I added her - they talked about it. I explained why and after some talking my friend told me that the TARGET - her name is Maria - said after seeing my profile that im she thinks im really really handsome and that I should try it and text her.. as she said I did.

Last Saturday 9 PM
Me: Hey Mary Lou, whats up? (I gave her a Nickname)
She has seen the message at Sonday 2:13 AM (Maybe to tired to anwser and than forgot?)

Till now (Wednesday) NO RESPONSE.

So what do I do now?

How do I make her respond?

Thank you for your time.

Sincerly
kplush

Maybe just go with a Facebook message about something interesting not something generic like hey whats up.... How many guys do you think she has gave her number to have said the exact same thing. be different...

Find something in her pictures that intrests you that you wouldnt mind talking about then game on, that is going to give you a better chance at a response than what you said in my opinion.

Thank you for awsering

There even is something we have in common in her profile, we both draw. Besides that her friends say we have generally much in common.

Well but how do I RE-Open the convo? After she didnt replied can I just say something about the drawing or talk about how she was that stupid not to respond? (well not in that way of course )

The wrong move would destroy it forever I think.....

Thanks

First, I'd say don't think about sending the wrong text as "destroying it forever!"

That mindset doesn't really help you out much or promote much confidence in yourself. Start by realising that attraction can only really be created in person. And from the sound of it you haven't spent much, if any, time with her in person.

So either right now she's really into you, in which most texts you send will be ok. Or she's really not into you, in which no text you send will do you any good. Either way nothing you can text or email her will generate attraction that isn't already there.

Assuming she's really into you, tell her what you want to do. "Hey it's yourname, I heard you were interested in me and I'd like to meet up and get to know you better. When all are you free this week? Maybe we hangout."

After saying all this, I'm new to this forum and I am a big fan of direct game. But if she likes you then being direct is the best way to go.

That's the stuff, right there. Good one, Evan, is it?

You know that she IS INTERESTED in you. It's the equivalent of an obvious flirt. Act accordingly. She WANTS you to text her. Screw that, you know she wants you to make a move.

Be the exception.

Hot girls get lame texts asking them "what's up" and whatnot. Meet her face to face. Use body language. Be Alpha. Be fearless. You're not giving a damn if you're losing her or not, you've already won. Go face to face and ask her out, simple.

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"Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead."
- Lucille Ball

These situations are never good. My advice: send something that will ensure a response. Send her a joke, a riddle, a picture, or whatever. Just make sure to proceed with a question as that will begin the conversation between you two.

I hope this helps.

I'm somewhat new to PU, but what I've observed so far is that there isn't much of a difference in girls based on their hotness. There almost seems to be no pattern. Some incredibly hot girls reply. Other plainly ones don't. So I say just be direct and go for it. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, drink a beer and hit the town. Plenty more where she came from.

Happy playing.