I'm old, but still new in this pickup stuff. Reading through some of the guides has already been very helpful. Getting her to chase you, etc. All good stuff. Big thanks to all for enlightening me. This stuff can also be very helpful for just finding a new G/F. Iv just ended a LTR, and I am already looking to hook up with this particular woman. Oneitis, I know! Due to a screw up on her part we weren't able to meet today. she called frustrated (her words!) and I was all calm, and I said its fine we can try later in the week. We both have much going on, so hook up time is minimal. But she has been more aggressive about making time for me lately, all due to the advice Iv picked up on here. To hear her sincerely frustrated over our missed meeting just made me smile from ear to ear! BTW, my name is Tony...

So ok. I am thinking about the last few days. She is a smart women, 45 years old. Single, owns a house, job all that. So I texted her something about fixing her lawn mower some time this week. 2 days ago shes telling me shes going to mow the lawn (with the other mower). So I realized I should have said I'll be over to look at that then. She keeps doing things like that, laying bait out, and I keep flaking. So it seems. I get the feeling shes sizing me up for a B/F and working to pick me up. I am ok with that, in fact that's what I want. We have a lunch meeting setup for Friday her idea! And a possible bike ride (her laying out bait) some time down the road. I seem to keep flaking in person, like a bitch. I am an attractive 50 year old man, always have no problems getting a good looking G/F. But there is this thing, shes taller than me. Beautiful, tall, sexy IMHO. She has a large ass and big thighs that I find sexy, but shes a little self conscious about it. I think I am intimidated by her height. Arg! Iv got to get over this, and get her to bike with me Saturday! If I don't ask her face to face, she will flake! If I choke Friday, i will kick my own ass! Just venting. Reply and call me a pussy. I need some feedback...

Hello pussy. Lol I'm kidding.

If you've read The Game by Neil Strauss then you'd know that he isn't the tallest of people, and he never had any problems with hooking up with tall women, neither should you- embrace the tallness. Look at how successful he turned out to be.

The large ass/ big thigh thing? Irrelevant, to be honest. Even if she is conscious about them, it shouldn't make a difference.

Don't put yourself out there too much for this women- If she really wants you for YOU, and not just things that she could get out of you, such as a repaired mower that she doesn't use, then all will work itself out. Don't offer to fix her mower. Don't jump at her bait. She's fishing, and you don't want to be the salmon that bites the hook, you want to be the shark, and you cant just dangle a rod in order to catch a shark. Why don't YOU dangle bait for HER to bite at? Women can play highly manipulative mind psychology, but they never expect a man to return that behaviour. True PUA's, they can reverse that behaviour, and it can work wonders.

If you run game on Friday, and be genuine when you do, you might find that you don't even need to use any routine or conversation opener- it could just run smoother without it. Keep a few in mind, just in case.

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Thanks for the reply! Well, the lunch Friday was her idea, and shes buying. I rescued her butt when she missed the bus, I was a few blocks away. she called at the last second, I said I am at the last light out of downtown, so I went and got her. She told me I was awesome, and later texted me: "I will buy you lunch". I told her I just happened to be there, no big deal.