I use the term Oneites loosely, because I fucked her.

Got all AFCed up her ass, so WE stopped fucking, all while fucking other women. And her with other men.

She would flaunt her "sexcapades" if front of me.

I didn't do that, didn't hide them either.

So, she was getting no reaction from me with her "flaunting". So she set her target... on someone (married) and VERY near and dear to ME. It nearly ruined our friendship, I lost all closeness with his wife. He is forbidden to come near my house. (the marriage was saved...barley.) I took the heat.

I froze her out HARD! I get my Bro needed punishment too. He did!

It's been 8 months.

I had a random over two nights ago. She saw her, enter, and then exit a few hours carrying her heels, and hair a wreck.... obvious. (I happened to catch her starring).

I didn't give a shit, still don't.

But here is the thing. I mean its been ZERO CONTACT for 8 months, she send me a funny sms..no big deal. After she sends "Sorry just had to."

I replied "Lol". That's it.

Any input? Is she wanting to fuck with my head again? Or just wants some dick? Don't tell me it's nothing. Women ALWAYS have an ulterior motive!

Input?

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Heywood,

Nowhere near on your level with this shit - but IMHO if she saw your random leaving and THEN you get the text after 8 months of radio silence, she's got the jealousy thing happening.

I'd guess she wants to test the waters and get her foot back in the door.......

That's my 2 cents anyway

Funny msg? It could be to everyone on her contactlist.

If it was specific to you, i guess she seeks some attention.

I wouldnt react to it, it could mean anything. But if she contacts you again, it would be a clear positive sign and you can start thinking about it.

Yea imo she wants the attention from you.... Seeing a girl leaving your place PLEASED, walk of shame, hair a mess. I could bet it triggered some jealousy on her part, nice move.... If you are gonna contact her just keep your frame you've been keeping with these other girls... it is working right? why change anything. Dont bring up the old relationship either, that has been a turn off of escalation in my past experiences.

I would have thought so, because she is an attention whore after all, but it was the "Sorry, just had to" back up message that caught my curiousness.

Charles and Majikal, I was thinking that as well, but 8 months? Unless she's is just between cock right now. She is not the Jealous type.

Typically dudes trip over their dicks for her.

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She was jealous that you moved on just fine(you admitted it yourself she's an attention whore and she saw someone else had your attention the night before) and she was looking to play head games with you. Don't let her what she did was pretty fucked up so I wouldn't hit her up or do what you did and keep it real short.

I have done nothing, still on freeze. Not an issue. I have a bang date for Friday/Saturday, and FWB for Sunday if I don't go see my kids.

(FYI, that is her on my avatar April 2012, only up for a short time)

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Maybe you dicked her down better than the other guys in the last 8 months and she wants it again?

Mind games. All mind games.

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/\/\ Yep

Not playing.

Edit: NO not mind games. Ass games, her mind is about as sharp as a 7th grader.....it's her ass that fucks ME up. That thing is razor sharp!

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falling in love with the pussy, eh?..I feel you on that..

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String her along, and then tell her you are seeing someone, slip it in that, you are seeing a hot brazilian model who studying law at university.
Seriously, the only reason why girls these days can get away with shit behaviour, is because guys are too desperate to have sex with them. You seem like a good guy, I'm not saying "Niceguy" i mean genuinely a good guy, realise your worth, and don't resort to the easy option, as i can tell you are contemplating it, being on this forum.

She will do two things to you, if you hook up or text her back showing too much interest.

1) She will flake on you, reject you somehow, stop responding, so it gives her the satisfaction of being wanted by you, and that she can have you back whenever you want.

2) She will have sex with you but after she will reject you, maybe not first of all, maybe it will be a few month relationship, but that will be it, probably cheat on your ass.

This has nothing to do with your character, it's simply the brutal dynamics of mate selection, especially in today's pointless consumerist culture. My best bet, is too tell her that you have an amazing girlfriend that you are happy with, and tell her to go and do one.