So.. I met this girl (standard procedure) and she is out of this world. I've never felt this way about anyone, EVER. And I've had my share of attention from girls in my life, never did I care as much as I do now.. It's come to a point where I don't recognise myself, I'm desperately paranoid, I can't stop thinking about her, I over analise everything.. Suddenly from no-caring ass face, I went to the biggest pussy you can think off (relation-ship wise). There's a problem tho.. She has had some bad experiences when it comes to relationships, she has been cheated on and lied to since the very beginning that she started dating. It developed some kind of bitch attitude. Wich I totally understand, I'll be as patient as I need to be so she can realise i'll be the very last person she has to open herself up to.

Now.. My friends don't like her, at all. We've had lots of arguments (my girlfriend and I) because she constantly makes me feel like she doesn't want me around. She would go and drink with her friends rather than spending the evening with me (several times).Basically treating me like shit or a last option. So then I get mad and tell her that this isn't how u treat the person u deeply care for. So we break up but everytime we do break up, she comes back apologizing, realising she needs to let me in her life more and that she was in the wrong by treating me as she did. so I take her back, because I can't imagine being with another girl. This has happened 3 times now, that I would break up because I can't take it anymore that i'm 70% in the relationship and she's in for 30%. But when ever i finish it cause of that, she shows how much she wants to be with me by coming back everytime and apologizing (she's very stubborn).

Enough about that topic, we're working things out now, she's opening herself up to me and I feel that things will be different. But now.. my friends are all convinced about how bad she is for me, and that I'm being a total pussy for taking her back everytime. They don't see that this girl could be the one for me and I genuinely would want to spend the rest of my life with her.
I've lost my best female friend already and I feel like I'm losing my general 'bestest' friend in the progress aswell... my brother from another mother if you will.. They want nothing to do with her or with me when i'm with her. Just as much as she doesn't want anything to do with them because they are acting like dicks towards her.

What do I do?

Your friends are right in this one. Maybe you need to reread what you wrote, cause it spells it out. You are being a pussy and being made a fool in the relationship it sounds like to me. If you dont end it now, in a few years you will finally wise up, next her and be friendless at the same time.

Gahh.. I hate to admit it but you're probably right.. Ugh.. this stings, hard.

I'd agree with a breakup, but if you encounter something similar with another girl maybe set the bar higher when she comes back. Tell her it's the same story and she's gonna have to put out more work than an apology if she wants you back.

Sounds like you sold her a personality but expected to be able to drop that personality when you got with her.

Good feels bro.

Newbie 2c

I really do feel like its gonna be alright this time, she's made some sacrifises and she let me know how she felt about me wich was very positive and promising... Could be wrong once more and get dissapointed again, it shall be the very last time in that case. IF not, the friend situation would just have to get better in time when they realise she's a keeper after all? Time will tell..Its just so strange the way this hit me in the face, how I feel about this girl, I just have to give it one more shot.

Your in denial she will do something emotionally immature because that's the type of emotional chick your dating and you'll make another excuse. I had a friend like you and couldn't support him being made a fool of he was big into PUA too. Ended up taking the chick to Vegas all on his dime and she ended up breaking up with him the day they got back. Stop making excuses be a man and next it, there's to many girls out there to be a emotional slave to one.

Dead on. You are doing what i did once before. If you dont get out now, once you do get out, this relationship will affect or destory your relationship. And you next relationship might be the one.

You sound like you are being cuckolded. GFTOW immediately.

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-Bluesy

@Themagicalone

Exactly what you said just happened, except for me making another excuse, its over now. nexting it!

Thanks to the rest of you for taking their time to say their thoughts on my issue. Its taken to heart.

Peace,
-Kravous

DO NOT CONTACT HER, she'll play some dumb games to try to lure you back into it do not contact her. Game other girls and move on.

Noted.