Can someone help me see what I done wrong here. Me starting convo with an hb 9... I assumed attraction and went in for qualifying, I thought she saw my facebook wall, which is a dhv, preselection,alpha,social status,I'm a music producer, etc.. I thought she saw that.

22:22
Freshboi202:"I just realized who you remind me of.. wow"

22:22
Amy: "who"

22:37
Freshboi202: "Dora the explorer... ^^,) .R yu that adventurous tho"

22:40
Amy: "lame convo starter"

23:03
Freshboi202: "Would have been if I was tryna start a convo..."

23:46
Amy: "k"

00:02
Freshboi202: "Since we're speaking, my ex gf's friend just tld me abt a guy who approached her .. a guy walks up to a girl and says "You want me now" ...What would you do a guy approached you like that
as the man,I would laugh if a guy approached my girl like that ..."

Today

09:10
Amy: "You made me fall asleep."

11:17
Freshboi202: "Lol r u always like this... or just with guys you're attracted to ^^,)"

11:53
Amy: "Ew."

13:22
Amy: "Stop talking to me, you freaking me out."

I still didn't reply, not sure what to say or do next. Please give advice if you're an MPUA.

Lol... Really bro? What do you thinks going to happen? I teach men how to meet and attract women. Even if you have me your password to Facebook and I used my BEST game! There would be NO chance at recovering that! You don't think the "ew" "k" and "stop messaging me you're freaking me out" is enough to give you a hint? Lololol! Man, you're trying too hard, you have no rapport with this girl, she's isnt in to you. Drop it. There is nothing any one can say that will help you recover this. Best response? No response. Delete her off Facebook or reply with the classic "that's one way to treat people I guess" - actually scratch that. You need to have rapport and be alpha to say that. Just unfriend her and move on, learn from this mistake and stop trying to go with canned material. You're asking for MPUA help, seek it, with all aspects of your game. This is WEAK!

Cheers,


Alpha

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You got blown out the moment she texted back "K." Her previous reply was a shit test and you failed by getting offended, you couldn't back up your confidence. I would have said:

"I thought it was pretty good, made me laugh. What do you usually hear?"

It's obvious she gets hit on a lot, so this way you get her talking about herself (Especially since she's this cold) Then you build rapport fast because it's obvious it's not there. Cali-fucking-bration mate.

Other than that, GET OFF OF FACEBOOK. Do you think it would have been this easy for her to dodge your conversation if it was face to face? Don't be a pussy like all the other 50 guys that have tried to game her on Facebook because they can't find their balls. Go out, work on your game in the field, and then experiment with facebook.

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LOL. I'm sure I would have been able to fix it,in person, with nlp. Else, Can't I reframe and still build rapport?

Not over facebook you can't, because no Alpha Male would let a woman treat him this way. And you can't assert your dominance over her over facebook, you'll just look like a try hard.

(Btw just for the record, This thread really doesn't belong in the sticking point thread because it's only about ONE girl. Fact is, you just need to suck it up and save face. Unfriend and move on)

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Then She made her status.."When i get told that i look like freaking Dora the Explorer. kmt.

Im mad, cos its true." LOOOLLLL!!!

Way to gamey and you are trying way to hard. Im gonna guess that even your facebook wall makes it look like your trying to hard.

Be less gamey and more real and genuine.

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hey warped,

i was wondering what would a 'trying too hard' facebook wall look like?

thanks!

[quote="theonenonli"]hey warped,

i was wondering what would a 'trying too hard' facebook wall look like?

thanks![/quote]

This, at least partly: "I'm a music producer, etc." ...Unless you have some serious work documented to back it up.

I don't think I am a mPUA at all and I think no one is because everyone is improving all the time. There is one thing I have to say about this post though and that is, that the poster got tested. He should've just said "You are so funny, are you always like this?" and stopped massaging her and if she massages back good for you and if not good for you too because you didn't waste your time with a time waster and that she wasn't attracted to your DHV profile at all. Further, I think on Facebook you should only get hit on by girls not the other way around which happens when you don't have a real social life. My magic line to befriend girls on FB is to say "Hi, You may not know me but, from time to time I throw parties for cool people at the local [club/bar name] and would like to invite you. Add me as a friend and we'll see what I can put you up for" this way you can arrange for a meet in just one massage and of course you should look like you have a social life to pull that off because if you only have 60 friends on FB you definitely won't be able to pull that off. BTW, don't use that exact line. Change it a bit for your tastes like I did when I first heard it from Brent Smith.

But... Do I have to "massage her"? That is the question.

*Message*



Alpha

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I personally don't do Facebook game. Online game is mostly but not all for losers even if the statistic is that one in five relationships start online and the fact is if she agrees to meet in person, its game on. However, for your situation, you can do either of two things. You can do what I would do and ignore her. There is so many girls in this world that you shouldn't be asking anything about a particular girl. I recommend you read Aaron Sleazy's Minimal Game to get a better understanding of the situation. As far as whether you have to massage her or not, I would say don't massage her.

Fucking face palm * sigh *

Missed the point

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Why the heck are most of u writing massages when in fact we are talking about messages?..maybe its Mpua jargon 8o-just wondering- (forgot my advice-drop her bro!)

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