hey all,
I'm new to this kind of thing and have read Neil's The Game once or twice...
basically i'm looking for some advice on making my job sound more interesting than it is and how to improve my general game with women as I usually come accross as the nice guy to which a lot of women say "oh my god, you're so nice, like the nicest guy i've met..which is basically some serious instant friendzone..i need to develop some kind of bad guy/hidden darkness.

I have been to university for 4 years and now live abroad as a cabin crew for an airline as I wanted a break and to see the world..i've only been doing it for 2 months and have only slept with 2 girls out here...I have applied for a cadetship as a pilot with the same company - but i think this makes me sound like im trying to justify my job as trolley dolly.
I need to make my job sound more interesting, and how to make myself not sound like a nerd when I tell girls what I did at uni.
I'm open to any criticisms you may have.
With girls and FWB's i've been with in the past, I have this habit of turning them into long relationships.
I'm only 23 and have had 2 bad breakups from my last 2 Long relationships...

thanks in advance

Maybe your problem is that you cant seem to see the glass half full bro, i mean you went to college and now decided to go and explore the world, you can do that, you have slept with 2 girls in only 2 weeks and you may become a fucking pilot.

Also, to make your job sound more interesting focus on makeing it come off as a means to travel. Your goal is not the job itself, Its to open up your world with new experiences to grow as a person and be able to say i actually lived my life to the fullest.

Hope it helps,

Jason

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Cheers Jason.
Suppose I should start to look at it like that. I guess my last 2 relationships have knocked my confidence.
So would you suggest I talk about my job as a means to see the world etc as you said. Do you think when talking to women I should tell stories of my travels to keep them interested (DHV) or whatever it's called?
Thanks

I agree with this. Start off by talking about how much you love to travel... I never give girls a straight up answer when they ask a personal question like that. Keep them guessing what the fuck is gonna come out of my mouth next.

Well more like a confort story than a dhv. I mean you will be talking about your personal motivations thats hardcore deep coomfort building conversation. You are putting yourself out there so she first needs to deserve that, you know what i mean? But you can tell funny storys whenever

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ok nice one, i'll try it! cheers!

If you have a good job, and I mean $$$wise that's all you need. Women will respect earning potential. I work in IT. I am a geek, I pwn it. In my work environment I am one of the best in my department, and my confidence oozes out. I frequently work with women who don't understand something on their PC, and I help them, and can use this as experimentation! Almost all of the middle aged women (my age) are always all smiles. One of my co-workers always comments on it. He is jealous, and married to a women who isn't really all that. My weakness is outside work, and I am certainly not a PUA. Just a RACF. My only advice is OWN your profession!

This is REALLY good advice. BE THE BEST at whatever it is you do. KNOW you are the best. BE the best. GET the best.

respect.

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