Ok I'm in. I need some help with moving forward though.

I ran into this chick I've known for awhile randomly the other day. We hung out, got lunch, I ran some techniques like the cube and some nlp stuff I've learned. Everything is going great we have a date this sunday, and I need help moving farther than I have gotten. Kino's been made, anchoring with a ring was a success, and she wears it daily, and she mimics me like made.

I have some ideas for sunday, and remember I am looking to make this a serious relation ship.

I'm thinking of getting lunch, and then maybe a movie. I want to pull the, "do you want to kiss me?" line, but I need help on knowing if it's a good time or not. Yes, this is slightly a oneitis chick, but I've moved to where it's not just me wanting her. I know I act way too cocky, and I have no idea where it came from, but I working on it. help.

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dinner, movie ... Good luck on the typical guy dates. *Yawn*. I'm surprised of your experience on the board and not at the same time. I find that people tend to read topics of their interest only. Listen, there is great advice here on the forum, how in the hell haven't you come across the DON'TS of typical guy dating ETIQUETTE? Take the girl for a walk in a park rather than a movie, if its cold than the shopping mall, and watch her look at stuff to buy, and if you are lucky you can convince her to step into a victoria secrets for fun, and try stuff on for you. Whatever is clever man, there is tons of non-typical guy dates you can hook up with just read more often. Rather than being picky. The whole purpose is to be talking and getting into her comfort zone. Than escalating your kino while your with her, and finally pulling back and taking control of the seduction on and off. Works like a charm bro.

I agree with Jacked!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Try this shit out...

Take a walk and Talk...
Try some kino on the walk and talk...

Take yer happy ass to a book store walk and talk some more with kino...
Go into the self help section, look up books how girls like to be touched blah blah blah, read her some of the techniques...Read her like 2 or 3 of them...Make sure you remember them... Have her write them down... If she asked why, you tell her that you will explain it to her later...

Go to the movies pick like a two hour flick...Try to be in a nice dark corner,as the movie starts, I wanna say after 20 mins ask her to read one of those techs she wrote down...But have her tell you in yer ear... As she tells you what to do, you start doing it... Sneak in some kisses on her neck, some on her ear lobes, but don't try to fuck her...Then Just stop... Repeat again after 20 mins...Continue with the movie after each attempt...Hopefully she will be like puddy in yer hands... Then just be real chill and talk to her and ask her random shit...I can bet you a whole fucking dollar she will not leave yer side... Then kinda make her work for yer attention... You can repeat this method on various dates ... It's all about kino... Try yer best not to get too horny... Just wait it out, plus its a lot of fun...Then when the time comes... You go all out...

She sounds like a good girl, but you can bring the freak outta her...

Don't stick the usual AFC shit...

This is probably asking a lot of you, but if you say this girl is feelings you and you have already tried some kino on her, then you should be good...

Good luck...

Peace

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Ok. Kinda fucked up here, she invited me to a party, and well, I got shit faced, and so did she. I was stupid and went all afc, basically a clingy bleeding heart. After I went all bleeding heart though, we had an intense make out session, and thats when everything started.

The problem came once I got clingy, she hates this more than anything. We woke up the next morning hung over as hell, and I noticed I was still acting clingy and just left.

Now my plan is to just wait till tuesday, this happened of saturday/sunday, and give her a call, act like nothing happened, and see if she still plans on going to the dance lessons we planned on taking together. I'm thinking of just asking when we're going to meet up.

I am debating apologizing for being so shit faced though, you guys think that it's a good idea, I hadn't drank for 2 months and found 8 glasses of whiskey and coke didn't do me any favors.

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Nope, she was the one who got you shit faced, she was trying to get you drunk so she could make out with you - she should be apologising to you (This is cocky funny though, and it sounds like you've plummeted into the clingy needy stage, so it wouldn't be congruent).

Mate, you sound like you've got a real case of one-itus here, but I know how hard it is! For example, why are you ringing her? Why isn't she ringing you? How much do you care if she doesn't bother to ring you?
Ouch, when you read that back, doesn't an AFC alarm ring? If not, then I suggest you go back to whatever ebook/book or DVD you started from and go over it again. You do not ask her when you're allowed to meet up with her. You're the leader, she's chasing you, remember? If you want to meet up, you tell her the time and the place and "she" can come if she wants. For example, you're going to the pet shop (great date location, btw) to pick out a new puppy for your little sister, she's welcome to come.

Vital on the money!

well guys, never mind the last post.

I'm still good, hell better than good. Not only is she still acting positively toward my actions, but she's also making me dinner, we're going to the dance classes, perfect for kino, and I'm taking her stargazing on top of the tallest building on campus, which she has no idea about yet.

No, I didn't contact her, I logged on to MSN instant messenger and as soon as it activates, I get a message with my name in all caps followed by like twenty exclamation points.

I'm not screwed, I'm just back at square one, and able to go into it with more knowledge and being far more prepared.

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