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When gambler says it, he generally means the club obviously. That's the one place where girls notoriously don't acknowledge guys. All I can say so far is DHV to get there attention. Make yourself known in a boss manner, then these girls might perk up and take notice:D
This is what I do...
Before I even go into the bar (as I am walking from my car) find a group of 2 or 3 girls and say "Hey guys, I'm not from around here but I wanted to check out some of the bars/clubs in the area. Cool if I tag along with you all until we get inside? I'll buy you your first round of drinks for being so friendly." (most girls don't mind having a guy with them because it keeps other guys from hitting on them. Girls don't go out to get hit on... They go out to have a good time. Just be friendly with these girls. It's AFC as fuck but they aren't your target.)
Now you have created a scenario for yourself where you are seen walking into the venue with 3 girls and have already created a set you can return to and backwards merge with or if you happen to not find a set to approach (you are there with "friends" now)
Buy them their first round of drinks and hang out for a bit just keeping friendly, fun conversation and you will notice the IOIs start to FLY at you due to preselection...
Or...
When you first get to the bar... Ask to speak to a manager. Tell him you are looking to throw a party sometime soon (make some bullshit up... Sell it.) and ask him for a tour of the place. Buy him and yourself a beer... Next thing you know... You are now seen walking around the bar/club with a manager. People have no idea what is being said or what you are walking with the manager for... They can only make assumptions based on what they see. You will be seen as a high value guy.
Both work very well for getting IOIs from all over the place and truly becoming "THE MAN" in the room.