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| thront | PostPosted: Tue May 14, 2013 9:15 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue May 14, 2013 8:07 pm Posts: 1 | | Hey guys,
Need your advice on below topic, so let me give you some background then whole story.
I've been out of 8 years marriage for the last 5 months. During that time I have rebuild my confidence - reading on a subject a lot, gym and buying new clothes.
Overall all started paying off - I had 3 incidents each time I went out.
First time bit of a shocker - 2 mins in a club waiting for a beer girl smiles to me I smile back nicely and then she dances back to front of me grinding - unfortunately no major action taken part from some small kino - to shocked to do anything more as never had HB so straight forward to me after just smiling and being confident.
Second time was just standing round the dance floor pretending to be "not bothered" and then 2 girls out of 4 dragged me to the middle. Made some pictures of them asked who's idea was that - they pointed on one of them. Then approached them 2 who were to "blame" while there were having a smoke. Had a quick convo about buying one cigarette of them and we bragged about the price but one of them (not interested from the start) wanted to shit test me so I kind of destroyed verbally her while still being calm. In revenge she decided to take her friend out. So I said that she doesn't need her mums advice to go out and the girl stopped looking like she wants to stay we exchanged winks and smile but she went out after friend got really pushy. Will catch her later.
And now the final which will raise a questions.
Last Saturday I went out on my own again for a night out. Because was quite early I dropped to the pub bit after 8pm. While at the bar 2 nice girls gone in and bought some Wine. I have noticed that they cant be British girls as their body language was different than other ppl in the pub. I sat few tables away to observe a bit. Then after about 10 mins approached them asking if they are Polish as they look and behave differently than other girls. So they said that they are Russian (quite open) and Latvian (bit shy while with friend). And here the story begins - I sat with them started convo about everything and nothing building good SPAM with a lot of jokes and a lot of qualifying. Questions about work, partners and so on. When the Russian girl went to buy another wine I started exchanging long looks with the Latvian girl. That ended up with me asking to show me her hands - she complied and I complemented her on the softness and how nice they feel. I repeated that twice with both hands. Then there was a bit of fortune telling - hehe ending up with my hands going higher than the palms itself - she burst with laughter. Then she gave me her number when I asked. When friend came back she returned to her shy form. After another 10 mins of chat they were closing down so I asked them whether we splitting up and all goes own way but they insisted on going with them.
We went to one of the clubs but it was quite empty at the time so I got them some drinks and we started dancing. Long story short we spent there about 6 hours all the time 3 of us together chatting, drinking and dancing. Nearly all the time gazing and teasing each other with the Latvian girl. Her fiend looked like she is giving us a space to move on. All the time I was slowly building comfort and escalating on kino. At some point her friend went out for 45min with some guy. Then I asked her what's going on with her - that her friend is constantly getting a lot of attention and she didn't get any. So she pointed her finger out on me with a big smile. SO I asked if she fine with just my attention as she said YES. And then the best bit started we started dancing real close together holding hands, touching and she was teasing me not to kiss her in a lips. At some point when she resisted a bit of touching I have embraced her and told her that she didn't have to be afraid of me as I wont hurt her and wont do anything that she didn't want. Then she relaxed and let me do a lot more.That was amazing 45 mins when we were staring like kids on each other and enjoying being close. Holding hands spinning round and having little games. I did not kiss her in a lips but kissed her all around the face having a lot of fun there with teasing. Then her friend returned and the game was over. They went to the rest room for a chat. But when they returned she still gave me her hand to hold.
And that was the time where they were closing the club. I have asked her if she enjoyed the night and she said yes and that I am a great guy. Some how we split while I was picking my clothes. They left like a min earlier but I have lost them - I had a feeling that my girl didn't want me to walk her home when her friend suggested it.
I have texted her while coming back - "Hope you are safe back home" - but no reply.
Later on same day texted - "Hope you had a good night. I hope that we going to go out again sometime" - no reply.
Then rung her 2 days later no answer - left her small message (nothing pushy or needy) on her voice mail - at the end I am classy guy.
Guys please advise what to do as this girl is messing up my brain a bit. And nothing through the night was suggesting like she doesn't want me or that she was completely drunk or something. Only thing is she was bit shy and did not liked to talk about personal things at the beginning.
MY plan for now is to cease all the contact until she will contact me. Go out on Saturday if not contacted and hunt again. But I would be happy to get some advice from you of how to avoid such situations.
If you have any questions feel free to ask.
Cheers,
thront
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