Not too sure where to put this query so correct me if im wrong.

Saturday just passed I went on a surprise night out with a few friends, and managed to bag and tag a 27yo milf. Definate 8/10 and me being only 20 made it all the sweeter.

However, come the morning I left after a friendly goodbye, but during the stride of pride, I couldnt help but think.. I should have gotten her number. This could have led to all sorts of future hookups.

The problem I have now is the only thing i know about her is where she lives and her first name, and being Lisa that does really help to narrow it down when i did a quick search on FB.

How do I go about reconnecting her? Going to her house would probably take a huge amount of cojones that would take a lot to muster. Send her message, by post (do people even do this anymore?). My housemate suggest i send her a postcard or something with just my number on and an identifying phrase. I dont know if there is a man of the house that could be back at any point and I was just a one off thing.


Any input on this would be much appreciated

First off this isn't a sticking point, and it's not really anything to do with game either. So you know for future reference, a sticking point is a specific, consistent problem you have with women. For example if you find you run out of things to say after you open a lot. This isn't really game related either, as there are no amount of techniques or natural game that will help you here.

In regards to the question though, if you're that desperate to meet her again, hang about the place you met her, there's half a chance she might be there again. In the mean time go out and get more girls.

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The reason you haven't gotten her number is because she didn't give it to you because she didn't want to meet you again.

One night stand, she wanted to try someone a lot younger.

I'm not saying this to be a dick or anything but this is very likely the case.

Trying to re-initiate contact with her by the ways you've suggested are creepy.

This too. What's the plan if/when you do track her down? Especially through FB seeing as you never got her last name. You won't look sweet or romantic you'll look like a psycho. Anyway, this is the wrong place to have this discussion, this should be in general questions or day 2's.

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Thanks for the pointers and sorry again for posting in the wrong section.

All the ideas I mentioned about trying to meet her again were just spitball ideas whilst I was bragging to my housemate. I showed another friend of mine a picture of us and he recognized her from the gym he works at and I go to.

I think my plan of action from here on in will be just to hit the gym at different times of the day, I'm usually a first thing in the morning sort of guy, and see if I bump into her at some point and try to strike up some sort of convo with her in someway.

How would you recommend I open her if I do see her there?


(Is there a way to move this post to a different section of the forum?)

Honestly wouldn't bother with any routines or anything canned or whatever mate. People forget the whole point with gaming women is to create attraction fast by playing into the psychology of a women's sexuality, to the point where she wants to sleep with you. You've already done this so you don't need to worry too much about this - attraction is alread established. If you see her, basically just act confident without being overly arrogant; speak to her like you've best friends for 10 years. This way you establish comfort on top of attraction, and she'll be well up for seeing you again. Tell her you forgot to take her number, and that it is something that you make a point of doing after you go home with a woman. Hey presto #close.

Remember the whole point is that you don't have to be doing this, and you're doing her a favour by taking her number. If you convey that messege well then you will get her number.

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So, brief update.

I went to the club I met her last week and guess what, she was there. I wasted no time with pleasantries and got straight down to business. Went back to hers again. Done the deed. This time however, we sswapped numbers.

Not 40 minutes ago she text me asking me if im up to anything tonight.

I leave to conquer at dusk!

Once again, the system works. Good work lad.

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