Ok, I would appreciate it if anyone had any serious advice on this situation.

My close friend was on and off with a girl (who had already had a baby with some other guy 2 years ago, who fucked off and never saw her again). And anyway, he ended with her because he didn't want the package, that life etc.... she also said she was on the pill. Now she knows that my mate is a catch as he is currently at uni making a better life of himself, and shes at home looking after her first baby. He ended with her a couple weeks ago, and she turns up at his door wanting to get back, she stays over and says she cant get the train back that night, he says they are not getting back together. The next day she tries again, and then after a few hours she says shes pregnant, does 2 tests, +++.

He doesn't want to be with her, nor have a child with her. Problem is, when she told him this, he said they couldn't get back together, and his head was all over the place and he ended up agreeing to getting back with her. She is very manipulative towards him. Now that she is gone he doesn't know what to do.

She is currently texting him saying shes going to keep it, she wont get rid of it, hes being a dick for not calling her back. shes calling him all sorts saying shes having it with or without him.

Now my advice was... Tell her you want some space, say your not ready for it, it wasnt planned and that he feels forced into a relationship and that he can't guarentee they have a relationship in an unstable relationship. Saying he wants a job, and able to afford stuff etc...

Then I said just ignore her for a few days, let her text saying all sorts etc.... and then she will come round to his way.

Any thoughts? I'm sure this happens a lot.

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She is probably doing it for attention. I had a girl do this to me once...

I purposely went AFC on her and all the sudden she had a miscarriage...............

Otherwise... I always have said "If I'm going to be man enough to get sleep with a girl... I had better be man enough to be a father if that's the outcome"

This goes beyond PUA but the advice I'd give him, first find out if she's really pregnant. If she is he needs to find out if he's the father, its obvious this girl has emotional problems and for the most part emotional women are usually sluts. If she's pregnant and he's the father let it be known that HE WILL NOT GET BACK WITH HER. He needs to maintain this stance NO MATTER WHAT, she's manipulative and will try to come up with other shit to draw him back in, ignore it keep his stance. He needs to let her know he will step up and be a father but he will not be back with her, good luck.

This whole thread, is some scary shit. Guess its a reminder not to stick your dick in crazy, though its too late for your friend.

Paternity test or GTFO.

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Thanks guys, turned out shes 4 months gone, she had a scan today. I have told him he should not get back with her and that he will just say he will put the baby first. Abortion is off the cards.

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