So me and my GF (Or Ex GF..) have been together for about almost 2 years now, here are some cliffs of what happened:

-Last 2 months my feelings towards my GF have decreased, nothing too drastic tho
-I got annoyed at her faster than usual and this led to some stupid arguments
-I told her about how my feelings dropped a bit but that she doesn't have to worry about it because everytime i am with her the feelings are back its just in the period of time when i don't see her that i have this "meh" feeling (We see eachother maybe once a week)
-After i told her that she got a bit upset but she was fine, after that we dated 2 times and both were great fun and i didn't have those decreased feelings at that time.

Now here comes the iffy part:

-We were texting on a saturdaynight, she asked if i was going out and i replied "Yes" then right at that moment a friend of mine was at the door so obviously i walked to the door and open it (So i didn't say anything further to my GF) then he came in and i had to give him some papers and shit and it took about 10 minutes.
-After this i opened up my phone and see my GF acting all weird and mad that i "ignored" her for 10 minutes and i explained that there was a friend at the door and i was busy for that moment, she still acted mad and was like "tell me when you get home from going out" so i was like "okay"
-I go out, i get home, i text her that im home, i go to sleep.
-Next day i wake up: See a text, "we need to talk i think" i ask her "Sure, about what exactly?" She didn't read that message for about 1 day, the next day she read it and she didn't respond for yet another day (So at this point we are 2 days without talking)
-At the third day i asked her "So tell me a day that you have time" (She is in her exam period and is really busy) so we set up a place to meet and we talked

-I called her out that her behavior the other day (getting mad when i don't talk to her for 10 minutes because something came up..) is kinda weird and i didn't like it, she got all defensive and one thing led to another and she said that she wanted a "break", i didn't know how to respond to this so i told her i was going home to think about it

When i got home i thought about it for a couple hours and texted her "What kind of break is this? The kind of break where you want to see other people or what?"

And she said "A break is a break, if you want to see other people you should break up" so i said "Okay" (I thought it was fine at that point, not quiet sure what to think of it)

And then this happened:

GF: "A break is a break, if you want to see other people you should break up
Me: Okay
GF:
Me:
GF: Cool
Me: ?
GF: Sorry i don't feel like fighting anymore and right now i am breaking up with you, i know it isn't polite to do this over text but i have other things i have to worry about right now
Me: Wtf... Okay....
Me: Are you 100% sure about this?
GF: Yes
Me: Okay, well then goodluck with your exams, and if you happen to change your mind you can let me know

End.


So, i am here right now, not really THAT sad because i have some kind of feeling that she will change her mind (or maybe not, but i'd rather not think about that) so now im not quiet sure how to handle this situation? Was she just over emotional? Does she really wanted to break up? (Her feelings towards me were pretty heavy before all this). Is this a shit test even perhaps? I am really kind of shocked here.

Any help is appreciated, thanks guys.

She dumped you. Possibly because she is pissed off. Quite honestly, I don't know if she is a good girl or what kind of girl we're talking about here.

If she's a good girl, with good self esteem, then she is right on target. I'll be honest, that was a low class move setting the phone down for 10 minutes fucking around with a buddy. The least you could have done is tell her flat out that someone was at the door and that you'd call her back.

That's my gut reaction after reading your post. Seems to me she could be a good girl, with a legitimate bitch. You made a low class move, failed to apologize and be sincere about your mistake, she takes it as you don't give a shit about her, she decides she's worth more than that, end of relationship.

And if you're not all that upset about it, then her feelings are probably right on, and neither of you shouldn't be too upset about it. Probably for the best all the way around.

She is a good girl, low self esteem and she can be a bitch sometimes as you described
I was not on the phone with her? I was texting her. She asked me if i went out and i told her "yes" (On text, after that the doorbell rang and i put my phone down, then 10 minutes later i looked at it again.
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I am upset about it, just not that upset as i thought i would be, i am not crying or anything, however i do wanna get back together but she broke up with me and i told her that if she changed her mind she should tell me, so the ball is on her court isn't it?

The moment you told her you lost some feeling for her, you lost her right there. Ever since that moment she will have been looking for a reason to dump you. When girls are in a relationship they want to feel loved, they like the security of having someone who accepts them. Rather than say "I still like you, but I've lost SOME feeling for you" you would've been better off dumping her straight up so that you were the one in control, at least then she might've chased you a bit to talk you out of it. By saying you lost some feeling but didnt want to split, you gave her the chance to emotionally "check out" of the relationship and dump you. She probably thought "this guy doesn't make me feel special anymore" and if she is low self esteem it would've felt even worse for her. I'm all for being a challenge and being honest in a relationship but what you did was very wishy-washy, i.e. maybe you might breakup, maybe you won't. The best approach for a full-time committed relationship is "all or nothing". Indecisiveness is extremely unattractive.

You thought you had this girl at your beck and call, but she called your bluff. Live and learn, move on and don't make the same mistake again. Go no contact, let her fuck other guys, you fuck other girls. Then if she contacts you again, keep her as a backup for ex sex or turn her into a FWB / FB.

Yeah, I missed that you were texting, not talking.

Hunter summed it up right. If you wanted to communicate with her that you were losing some feeling, the right move to keep the relationship in tact is to say you've lost some of the feeling, and you want to get it back. You then use that as justification for pumping some life, excitement, or fun into the relationship.

I.E. I'm feeling less than great about us. I think we need to spice things up and get back some of that honeymoon period feeling again. So, I got us tickets to X. This shows that as Hunter calls out, you're all in to fix a problem you feel is present.

She sounds like a crazy woman and one that i wouldn't bother with in my opinion. She had real lousy excuse to dump you because you didn't text her back in 10 mins WTF! Me and my GF are always late texting each other and we're cool with it because we understand that each of us might be too busy doing other things to text back straight away. I dunno how old your GF is but she sounds extremely immature like a spoilt child and you should be well shot of her!

Sounds more like she felt unappreciated and it was a test which you failed my friend

I don't know how much I agree with his loss of interest causing her to leave. I think what caused her to leave was the bluff which was called. If he actually acted like he didn't know if he wanted to stay with her, I think she'd have stayed, or at least come back running. Acting committed to a relationship, in my experience, hurts it more than it helps. The girl takes it for granted and stops caring. The girl should never take it for granted, but at the same time, see that it can work if she puts in the work. If you completely cut her off, of course she'll leave, but at the same time, acting like you lost interest, usually just makes them want it more and try harder. The burn point is when the guy is pretending, because once the girl pulls away he runs after her, and that's when he looks like an indecisive woman on PMS, and the girl gets turned off.

You lost her...I lost my gf some time ago kinda the same way,I told her i didnt feel the same,then we were together for a conference some days and she fucked up my psychology,making me break up with her,then begging her to be back together only for her to dump me cause it was her graduation year and she was too anxious and didnt want to overthink of me (plain excuses) . The best thing you can do as Hunter said is learn from your mistakes,and for me the biggest you did was tell her 'tell me if you change your mind'...You should have said 'ok,I'd ask that too cause I want some space'.If she contacted you after that then you d have some chances...now you are gonna be the either the code red solution or nothing at all ...

I did tell her i lost some feelings and that we should do more fun stuff together like before (as u guys suggested), i find it weird cause her feelings for me where pretty heavy and she also said multiple times like "You're not gonna get rid of me " and phrases like that.

I felt like my feelings were dropping (wich they were) it just got less special after 1.5 years and thats what i told her, then we talked about it and i said we should do more fun stuff together and she agreed.

Then this whole thing happened, but do you really think i lost her because of this? How can one feel extremely in love with me (assuming she was) and then all of the sudden break up because of a fight like that..

(She is also in her exam period so she is very stressful and only wanted to focus on school, she also told me that she wanted 3 weeks of no "dating" so she could learn for her exams, this was before the fight).

So im feeling like i should just wait till her exams are over, and after that maybe she will contact me or i will contact her? (I don't think i will because its weird as u guys stated)

Sounds like it was inevitable that your relationship would end. You feeling like you lost feelings for her. She saying she wants to take a 3 week break from dating. When you like someone you don't want to stay away from them for 3 weeks.

Move on son.