I've been seeing this girl for the better part of about 3 and a half years. I tell her all the time how beautiful she is, but usually not to the point of kissing her ass unless I'm just trying to pep her up after a long day or something.

The usual response I get though is, "No I'm not" or something along those lines, although occasionally she'll say something like "fuck yeah!". They're usually said with a smile though. What I'm looking for is maybe some clever rebuttals to her "no I'm not" line. She knows me as being somewhat cheesy at times, so that's not really too big of a problem. Just something that will maybe make her smile more or even laugh. I'm not the wittiest when it comes to making snappy comebacks. Most of them I've got off here. hahaha

Thanks!

When she says no I am not just reply

"I meant to say you're really cute."

If she says no I'm not

"What I really meant to say is that you are really hot"

If she persists

"What I really really meant to say is that you are really sexy"

Etc. etc. etc.

If she doesn't give up after several of the responses above...

Loner the tone and say, "okay I agree with you, you are fucking ugly"

It's hard to say what is really going on here without more info.

In general, I'm not really attracted to a woman with little confidence. Typically the only thing I say to women I am with who exhibit this is to say something along the lines of "I don't date women that aren't hot, smart, sexy......pick whatever quality it is you're talking about at the time. It's not deceitful or wrong, because it is a true statement, and a healthy response should be something along the lines of "I know, thank you, etc."

Anything short of that and I start to wonder if she really has the level of self esteem I want a woman to have.

This is pretty easy...

You need to divert her attention away from your compliment.

"You look really hot today, I think it`s that new dress. Where did you get it?" or "why did you choose that colour?"

"You look really cute today, it`s your new hair style. Where did you get it done?"

Can`t remember which guy it was (someone that writes a lot of books about influencing people), said that in order to avoid being shot down after a compliment is to divert the attention away from what you`ve said.