I've been working on maintaining eye contact throughout a conversation. Like conversations where one person says a couple sentences and then I'll talk. I'll make eye contact throughout that whole exchange and never got any complaints about it.

But... there's this girl I was talking to the other night and she was just going on and on and onnnn... And I made eye contact throughout. She looked at me and stopped mid sentence and said, "You're making me anxious, stop staring at me." I was sort of shocked at that. I spent the rest of that "conversation" looking away from her vaguely pretending to look like I cared. If it's just her talking all the time, what is my body language supposed to look like?

It is a little weird to be maintaining eye contact non stop.

Some people refer to that as staring.

Tone it down to 50% of the time when she is talking.

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But don't make it awkward for her, like you don't care about her story! You still have to pay enough attention.

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Agreed.

I was simply addressing the eye contact component. Thanks for your input.

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Make eye contact when you are talking. Look at her lips when she is talking. There is something about looking at a woman's lips that makes them EXTREMELY horny.

Don't give her attention when she doesn't deserve it.

I like this answer. I haven't tested looking at the lips for anything but the triangle method. I'll try that out tonight.