So me and my gf are friends for like almost 3 years and we have been together for 6 months now but we're having like a huge fight and the future doesn't look too bright. How do I fix this ?

First of all my gf went to a birthdayparty of this guy who was head over heels in love with my gf, she said I couldn't come because she 'didn't want to hurt him' or be 'the bitch'. I didn't understand so I got mad. Later she said she just wanted to have a party with her friends, obviously this is no problem to me.

A week later I got wasted as fuck and the old arguments came up again. We fucked in public ( restroom ) and halfway I just left her there, she didn't even have any clothes on when I left. After that I called her horrible names. I don't know why I did this, however I did and now I want to fix things.

Now, two weeks later she is still very pissed off ( wich I understand ) but I really want to make up. She still loves me but she's afraid that things like that might happen again ( ofcourse it won't !!! ) and she's like: I don't know if I still want to be with you, however I love you.

How can I make this up ??

I know somewhere she loves me but I just fucked up. I'm trying to be needyness. I call her sometimes but not more than normal, I don't want her to believe I'm desperate. Normally my number one rule is not to use any routines on my gf but I texted this: I'm going to lure girls back to my house with candy. Do you prefer skittles or M&Ms? After that I showed up with a lollipop. It just didn't work. Whatever I do or try she's as responsive as a wall. I'm trying but I'm really don't getting ANY feedback from her. I also tried 'the cube' on her, a routine I didn't run in a long long time, she seemed to like it, but 10 minutes later already it seemed like I was talking to a wall back again. Same with the number guessing routine ( it's always 7 ), she was pretty impressed and really liked it, but 10 minutes and a mood swing later I couldn't say anything right again.

How would you guys handle this ? Not as a PUA, but rather as a boyfriend.

The real breaker here wasn't you leaving her in the bathroom (unless you also took her clothes with you). I think it was her going to this guy's party without you. The bathroom was just you acting out of pain and desperation from what she had done to you (it was still a mistake because it showed weakness, but whats done is done). If you loved your girlfriend, would you leave her at home to go to the party of a girl that's madly in love with you, and refuse to take her so that she wouldn't be "mean" or that you wouldn't look like "the asshole"? Hell no. This girl is either seriously disloyal, or doesn't love you at all. Either way, you shouldn't waste your time with her. She sucks. Dump her. You'll feel more satisfied in the end.

obviously that was not what I wanted to hear, but maybe that's the only right thing to maintain my hapiness, I haven't trained my PUA skills in a long time after all ! I'm a huge opposant of 'freezing-out' but I think it will work this time ( either way ) or she says she misses me, or we say goodbye and I directly go to the bar and run some old routines on hot babes (:
what do you guys think ?

Look at her, and smile. she will say wtf is she's stil angry. Then touch her and quickly start kissing her neck, and pick her up. She will be smiling, and then take total control and fuck her. Works for my GF and my X-GF. Just take control, make it some rough make up sex.

thank you guys ! you both gave me some stuff to think about

- Just be sweet to her, and show her how sorry you are for all you have done to her before. Do everything you can to make all things right, and don’t give up.

Bend her over a couch and bleep the lights outta her