So let's get to the guts of it. Last night, I'm with a group of women, one of which I'm interested in, and a male friend of mine. He gets the conversation going, makes it light and fun, and suddenly, and for the rest of the night, all eyes are on him. All of the girls were facing him, twirling their hair, seeking his approval. Including the girl I want to attract. And it was like I wasn't even there.

Sounds like this friend of mine is being a dick to me, but you have to give it to him, he was doing everything right. And he was completely natural about it. It was all inner game; there was no canned material. He did his negging, a whole lot of hook, reel, release, and stacking like a pro. All of the girls wanted to hear what he had to say next. Last night, the emphasis was on the F in AFC. I'm here because I need to turn this around, and put myself in my friend's position.

Your friend seems to have this stuff down, have you asked him for pointers?

That's a tough one man. Being somewhat new to The Game myself, I hope to God that never happens to me. At least until I can figure out a way to counter it. Try searching for 'AFC counters to PUA in groups' or something like that. Maybe you'll find some tools to use. Remember! DHV!

You are definitely starting in the right place bro. Welcome to the community