Simple one.

If a girlfriend of few months, with whom you have intercourse once a week(because of such schedule), one day, almost to say - refuses - sex, or doesn't show the same level of desire, does that mean a dead end?

Consider - we had it three days ago and it was satisfying at both ends, and in this aspect it was just getting better. Small detail- when we do it, its great, however we never perform in a row. She pays a lot of attention to clock, and doesn't risk her scheduled time.

At this point she could be in the process of ovulation theoretically(and that's when they are seeking most fitting sexual partners). Today - we had one hour alone at my place, she got me turned on, and was definitely aware of that, but just didn't proceed. It seemed she could get turned on as well, but as I started direct foreplay, it didn't lead anywhere. It was just kissing and teasing on her part. After that she asked me if I was mad on behalf of playing tease, to which I admitted being irritated. Immediately she asks me "but you still love me?".

Reminded me of how she made me wait one month into the dating/relationship for sex, I wrote topic about it - its around here. She had drunk ONS as first experience before we met.

Another thing, her level of emotional affection is getting high, I can't complain at all, however I feel that I could become emotional tampon, because things like this make me insecure.

So then, this is a stage where game changes, and I want to establish some form of communication also. So I want to talk to her. Still I didn't think of how to approach my insecurity speech with a GF. I'm bothered, I told her to meet me tomorrow.

Mistake or not, my plan is to reconsider her reactions and opinion about relationship that could become redundant and lead her to cheating or wanting to cheat sexually. In such cases, they are mostly not even aware what happens biologically, thus they don't want to end emotional connection/relationship, but attraction drops. Fucked up situations like this is something I have bad experience with. And yes, I'm not too attractive in the long run, objectively, when honeymoon/chemicals wear off. I'm skinny and consider myself ugly.

How should I communicate problems or concerns with her? (I don't like prolonged uncertainties after initial game ends and serious RS games begin)
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Anyone?
No sex and sexual initiative during possible fertility period?

How is the rest of the relationship?

Have you treated her well? At 3 months, infatuation should be wearing off, and you should really be getting to know the other person.

Could be that she is busy (looking at the clock while fucking) and is unsure of where she stands with you. That is to say it's been a few months, and she is wondering if all there is is a few good times and great sex. Men want relationships to escalate sexually, women want them to escalate emotionally.

Could also be that there is other shit bugging her, but it's not a good sign if she is not telling you what it is. You don't want her to use you to unload all her emotional baggage, but a good healthy exchange where she seeks your advice or input is a good thing. If she's not enlisting that, could be that for the long haul she has reservations. If that's the case, the good news is you might have a good FWB for a long time.....

It still doesn't wear off. Emotional component, affection and connection are great, relationship is great. And sex is great. Just to mention, she's not dramatic or neurotic, there are no problems at all, its just that this one time it didn't lead to sex and I suspect she's in the ovulation period. That's when girl should be all over you sexually. That's my concern. Since we're having sex once a week, I don't see why we didn't do it this time, because we could have. Simple logic, if she's really in fertility period(I can't know for sure but its about 10-14 days after she bled), there is biological law of attraction why would she not initiate it or would avoid it.

And now I have real problem, besides that, if you're willing - check my topic "Help me in decision making".

- Maybe she is not yet ready. She may be afraid to have full responsibilities and obligations. She just wants to have a girlfriend boyfriend relationship with you without any commitment and responsibilities.

There could be so many reasons she didn't jump your bones that day dude, and not necessarily scary emotional shit, just reasons that she might have felt aren't worth explaining to you. Maybe she hadn't shaved her legs, maybe she happened to be having an ugly day and didn't want her to see you naked, maybe she'd pulled a muscle from working out, maybe she'd already masturbated that day, maybe she was tired out from work or school, maybe she'd seen an ad on TV that made her feel really sad, maybe it seemed like you didn't want it so she didn't want to risk initiating and have you say 'no thanks'. When you've been in a relationship for a while, not having sex with your partner one day doesn't seem like a big deal because you take it for granted that there will be more times in the future. Is she taking oral contraception? Because that stops her ovulating and reaching her fertility period.
Look you know this girl way better than me, and it could be that this is a legit worry for you. I'm just saying that there are a million possibilities to think about. The best thing I can say to you is this- much of the literature saying that women are driven solely by their hormones is nonsense. Even if she did feel hornier for a few days after her period ended, she could have been saying to herself, 'I do want to have sex, but... [insert reason why she didn't want to/it didn't feel worth it here]'. Pay attention to when she initiates next time, her overall mood and the stuff she does, and when she seems reluctant.
I know I commented on one of your posts just now, but this is a separate issue and it's also interesting to me.

Steven B, I can already tell you're going to micro manage this relationship to death. As Liz said, there could be a ton of reasons.
ANYTIME YOU FIND YOURSELF HAVING TO MAKE MORE THAN 1 POST ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP, IT'S DOOMED.
This is the most important part of all your posts here. You don't feel like she will want you soon and you'll make it happen.