Ok i've known of this girl for a while. Last time i spoke to her she gave me IOI " you better remember my name" thats after i haven't spoke to her in 4yrs. Well i haven't spoke to her in atleast half a year. I talked to her on facebook. Got her number was just straight up and told her we'd hangout somtime this week.
This is where i'm surprisely stuck, i know i'm just being nervous. We live in the same town awesome for me cuz we're both walking distance from each other. It's been 3 days after she gave me her number, i haven't called her. So i might call her up tomorrow or the day after, but honestly i'm feeling a little insecure of my wieght i know i shouldn't be but i've jsut started working out last week. I'm only 220. 6ft. But i'll get over it , after i work out i feel great, cuz i know im actually doing somthing about bettering myself. ok anyways. It's been 3 days since i got her number. I'm thinking about calling her and telling her to meet me at the park , and i'll probably do a little kino/ cocky and funny/ ask what's she been up to naturally catch up, see where it goes from there and maybe invite her back to my place. I'll show off by playing guitar, i can cook up somthing , we can watch a movie, i play improvise guitar so this is just somthing right off the top of my head. I gotta remember not to EXPECT anything though. Just adapt. Any tips ,advice, opinions would be appreciated. Another thing very important : i don't know how i feel about this girl, i don't know if i'm attracted to her or not, since of facebook i just asked for her number and got it. how do i make it not awkard if we meet up and i'm not feeling her? I don't want to settle. But i don't want for it to be awkard and lead her on. Do I Just tell her i gotta do something later?

This is all you need.

If you are nervous: imagine you going to meet your good friend. Are you nervous then? No? You both just want to have some fun time, thats it. Do not forget this.

Do not plan your moves, dont get nervous, dont expect, she will feel it and thats a major turnoff. Make sure to use escalation etc. when the time is perfect and keep the alpha mindset.

Text first, build comfort before you ask her out. Do you have any good reasons, for why she would accept your offer? How is your communication etc. if anything is well and she trusts you, go ahead.

Good luck.

Thanks for the reply, I just figured out I'd ask her out but maybe I should build some more rapport first, but what if I'd rather call her then text?

CALL her ASAP. Strike while the iron is hot. Asking a girl out is always better on the phone.

As far as what to do if you don't like her:
Just don't hit on her. Don't do anything sexual or flirt with her. And then end the date earlier than you normally would have. Simple as that. Don't overcomplicate things.

I think you'll be fine. You seem to have a good idea of what you need to do. Just do it.
Don't MAYBE invite her back. If you're feeling her, DEFINITELY invite her back. ALWAYS go for the pull. ALWAYS.

And the playing guitar thing can be GREAT, as long as it doesn't SEEM like your trying to show off.

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Ok I gotcha thanks bro.

Ok I gotcha thanks bro.