The Dilema:

The 2 HB's dumped their phones on me and took my phone along with an extra friend to the bathroom, brought me back a little surprise souvenir picture for me to remember them by. HB8 really fell for me that night, she texted my gay friend how cute she thought I was, while the HB8.5 was texting me with out me having added her name on my phone and me being pretty drunk that night. Apparently I pissed her off by asking which one of the girls it was, and after realizing which one, I got a text saying "How about you wait till the morning and text who you wanna text", clearly I pissed her off a bit, its cool though, If I know how to read things right, they're having a little tossle over me, but I don't know which one to pick, the one showing more interest in me, or the one that I am more interested in? (the HB8.5)

Quick intro:

So long story short, I've always had a little bit of natural game, I never had a problem with the ladies but after having my spirits destroyed from breaking up with my ex of a LTR I was done, I fully forgot how to approach girls or even talk to them. I tried first picking up girls with two good friends of mine from another university but damn their game rocked! These guys had the girls won over in a second, I had no room to come in, nor the guts.

Finding the book:

These guys were speaking in codes, I knew there was something behind their smoothness, it was then that I found the book: The Game by Neil Strauss. The second I picked it up I couldn't put it down, but we all know how that story goes eh? (Yes I am canadian!)

The setup:

So I got invited by an old bestfriend of mine to some big birthday party at a russian club, my friend is gay so there were all kind of people in there, but mostly a few straight guys, a few gay guys and lots of women! Unfortunately my crew had no idea what sarging meant, or what to do, and they weren't the most out going guys except for one who made it a few pages into the book, I myself have made it halfway, so with all the little faith they had in me I went right for the goods! Also forgot to add, I was wearing a muscle shirt with a nice vibrant purple but open dress shirt, a little peacocking and a good way to start the conversation ( Can I get your opinion on this? what do you think about this purple? )

One more add-in: I had 6 shots for a pre drink by this point, but I'm a heavy weight when it comes to drinking so I was good to go

Now we're Sarging!

Right off the bat we had 11 guys outside who showed up early and the first girls were starting to pour in, a good hunter knows how to wait, he analyses the situation, he doesn't run up with a pack of hyenas jumping all over each other for the first girls at the party, still an entretaining sight. I walked in past the girls, I made a little eye contact, shot them a smile and kept on walking right on through. I shook every guy's hand in the room, most of them were old highschool friends and it was nice seeing them again, but I still let out a big ole cheer, a little pat in the back and raised my social status.

Opening the 2 Set:

I scoped them out like an eagle, the 2 hottest girls in the room, I didn't want any other, I told myself I was going get them. They were actually with more girls sitting in a booth so it was going to be a challenge. I grabbed my friend who read a little bit of the book and signaled over to the girls, while the other seagulls followed (I'm going to call them seagulls because everywhere I went they just flocked behind me and leeched on to the attention). Now this bugged me for 2 reasons, one, fuck you I opened this set, why should you get the spoils of war with out any work? Anyways they were checking out a sisha menu (for those of you that don't know, its a flavoured tobacco that you smoke from a bong with a hose) I made some random ass recommendation with out having any clue what I was saying, but I sounded like it so they listened.

Working my way in and meeting HB8 and HB8.5:

I asked them for their name, and shook their hands, initial kino, now I knew about HB8 and HB8.5, they were both sober as a stick, but wanted to drink, and the party was just beginning, so after making myself welcomed by the group I left them to do some drinking until the shisha got there. I practiced my moves on other less hotter girls, I practiced reading their mind, "Closer your eyes, put your palm on my palm and thing of any number between 1 and 4" "was it 3?" OOOMGG HOWD YOU KNOW? Fellas, trust the game, it works. And so on and so forth I came back to the table, being a known and welcome guest now I sat right between the girls while the other seagulls watched.


THE BIG MOVE:

It's simple, smokers always do this, I myself am not a smoker but I've seen it done a million times, its called trading smoke. Guy takes a puff, the girl takes a puff and you kiss. we were passing the hose around in a circle, I was after HB8.5 "you know that if I put this in my lips right after you its like we're kissing right?" Bingo. I introduced the idea of kissing her. Then I whispered something similar in the HB8 ear's "you know that if you put this on your lips, its like we're kissing right?" another introduction. My confidence was off the rails. And so by the 3rd go around I offered the first one to trade smoke, she went for it and we made out. The seagulls stared in amazement. Luckily the other HB didn't see me pull that off and I offered her too, she went for it but made out even longer. I had just M closed the 2 ladies.

I'm going to cut this off right here before it gets too long, now you can kindly scroll back to the top and help with the dilemma and leave a quick tip it'd be great

From my experience,

if you go for the chick who you have more interest in, you will feel more awesome when you are with her, but the relationship might come to control you. When you go for the girl that is more interested in you, you will be able to put the relationship to better use for things not directly affecting your love life. These relationships are easier to maintain, because the more you show a woman that you don't care, the harder she will exhaust herself to please you, whereas the more true love you feel, the more you will show that you care about her and don't want to lose her, and this will drive her away. Women are fucked up like that. But it works.

I'm still new to the PUA forum so I think this is how I reply to you...in any case that is great advice! There is no point in going oneitis over the girl I'm more interested in as this was just my first night out, and since I'm not looking to settle down with anyone out there just yet, and the other one truly isn't bad at all, I think she's the one who is going to be getting a text back...but 3 day rule first right?

day 3 rule is for pussies. I always go straight for what I want. Just make sure not to double-text.

not contacting a person to make yourself seem more busy or occupied than you really are . . . what's the point? this is the stuff prissy chicks do that has ruined dating to begin with. If you like hanging out with someone, just be to the point and say it. Make sure to gauge the reaction before you move on from that point. The more you love a girl, the more you want her to confess her love to you and give testimony of her feelings. At least I am that way. It feels so awsome to be with that person that you never want her to leave you and always want to have that awesomeness . . . and because she doesn't truly NEED you (after all women make money nowadays and have jobs and can find other sugar daddies and boyfriends to obtain goodies from), this will drive her away.

Remember, a relationship in which you truly love the woman, nowadays cannot be maintained anymore; she will feel "trapped" by your love testimonies, your passion and your commitment, and start to manipulate you and eventually leave you. Inevitably. So instead have relationships with girls that are into you. The less you love them, the more disinterest you will show without feigning it, and this will make them fight harder for you. To the point where they clean your room and bake cakes for you (as I said relationship becomes more useful for goals outside of the relationship). Whereas when it is the other way around, you will find yourself cleaning your room for when your beloved chick comes over, and in the end she won't appreciate it anyway.

Nicely done man, true inspiration.

My thought on your dilemma.

Maybe play a long game on both of them. Go out with them both for a few nights, get them comfortable with the 3 of you being together, then later on, maybe the 3 of you can be together

Now that's what I call an inspiring idea! Hey, original poster, carry this out.

Lol, maybe I'm a natural and I never knew it.

Glad I could be of some sort of inspiration, now if my experience has taught me anything is that getting greedy always leads to nothing, now as a little update I took a friend's advice and he said don't settle for what is easier, but go for what you want. My goal for the night was to go for the blonde HB8.5 and that is what I'm gonna go after, after all it's just another challenge!

Now to work on my horrible, terrible, brutal texting game ....I'm scowering the forums for some good ole books on texting, but if anyone wants to shorten my search by passing me a few names, that works too

If you guys enjoyed my wordy report I'll try and drum up a new one, I tried to make it as detailed as possible so people can see what techniques worked for me, and add in what they would have done in that exact situation.

So you are going to go after the needy, prissy chick, rather than the one who actually rewards your indicators of interest by investing interest back?

Prissy, needy chicks have a way of: you investing 1000 kilojoules of energy into coming up with nice lines, good ideas what to do, initiatives, jokes, and whatever else to make her feel good around you, and she replying with statements such as: "yeah." "ok." "I guess it was nice." "we will see." And eventually, despite all your effort, their minds grow hazy vacuous and distant and drift further away from you. Whereas the chicks that begin by showing interest in you, eventually grow closer and closer to you.

If I were you I would go after both. And then reel up whoever bites. Remember; a woman might be able to fake an orgasm, but a man is able to fake a whole relationship.

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