Ok so quick backstory: went out with friends last weekend, ended up dancing and kissing this girl. Who i have talked to and played coed with previously 3 or 4 times.

didnt grab her number, but we became fb friends early this week. I msged her today though, and told her that we (me and another friend who she is also friends with) are going out for drinking next sat and for her to come out.

Also her best friend likes my friend.


She msged me back saying that since next week is tough mudder, she will see when its done and if she is "alive" she and her friend will come out.

What is an appropriate response? I am tempted to ask for her number and that i will "text" her on sat lettin her know where and then she can let me know. Or should i say something else?

I wanna try get the number in person so i can build some tension before the next text.

What do you guys suggest?