After I fucked the shit out of her she comes to the toilet and says:

HB: I kissed other guy.
ME: Did you washed your mouth?
HB: You don't even care.
ME: I don't care cuz I know you are joking.
HB: I'm not joking sorry
ME: When did you do it? Where?
HB: It was a proper kiss... when I was clubbing and you called me a week ago.
ME: (get all serious n shit) Why did you wanted closed relationship, why we didn't leave it open (she fucking BEGGED for me to get into monogamous relationship)
HB: I'm joking.

She said she just wanted to see if I would care.

Maybe this is my fault because earlier in relationship we were talking about threesomes and I told her that I wouldn't get jealous if she would get fucked by other guy.

And I am not jealous at all just feel disrespected (even if she didn't do it).

Any thoughts?

I'm an AFC. I had 4 girl friends lasting 7 years in total.

From my experince I would say all is fine. She tested if you would be upset if she kissed another guy. You reacted upset, and she is happy because this means it is a serious relationship for you and you are probably faithful too.

Now, from my experice this sounds like it is a good thing. She really cares about you!

But, if she does that (or something similar) again, then it's not okay. Then you can set boundarys and say something like 'I really like you, but this is not an respecful way to act in a realationship.' (mind I don't speak English that well, so perhaps translation problems occur.)

Grils usually don't like threesomes that much, as they usually care about monogamy a lot (only one out of 4 girl firends was different and she was the total opposite). Perhaps, I would in general and especially if the sex is good, I would give her more secuirty that the relationship is serious for me and perhaps bond with her more emotionally.

Update: I misread the first line. So she did that right after amazing sex? then it's even more clear that this is a postive sign. Next time, after sex you could bond more, some thing like "I feel sooo close to you now!", or "I could hold you forever in my arms like that", etc.

Yes after sex...

Thank you for your reply and tips...I will try to bond more!

after having sex:

you: I have something to confess
she: what is?
you: can you keep a secret?
she: yes
you: me too ...

(you can leave it there, they hate that stuff)

or you can go on


she: tell me!!!
you: ok, i banged your sister
she: you're joking
you: sorry ...

then tell her its a joke

"on the front of the maybach it says payback!"